I echo others and think you’re crazy jealous. It’s weird that you didn’t want him in close proximity to her and wanted him to go outside. You were in a public place.

I’ll also echo others and say snooping isn’t normal or healthy.

I’ve snooped twice in my life. One time, I was being super insecure. He gave me zero reasons to feel insecure. I just was. And I was young. The second time, it was because it was a bad relationship that I should have gotten out of much, much sooner than I did. Therapy helped with that one. A lot.

My husband, I’ve never snooped. I don’t know his passwords. He has female friends that he hangs with. It’s all good.

You haven’t mentioned any reason that he’d make you feel insecure. From my experience, there’s definitely a difference between being super jealous and real cause. You should work on it so you can have a solid, happy relationship.

I’d LOVE a red Chanel purse. If I ever purchased one, it would def be vintage.

I’m a fan of Cuyana and Emerson Fry. I get compliments when I where things from both, especially Emerson Fry. The black linen dress I bought there last summer is definitely a winner. Any day now, I should be receiving a pair of navy wide leg linen pants from Cuyana. I’m also obsessed with their silk dress. I own in two colors and wear a lot. My first one I’ve had for over five years now. Their Pima cotton stuff is really nice too.

For affordable basics, I hear people like Quince, but haven’t tried them yet. Was considering ordering a couple of the silk camisoles from there. I love the ones I have from Cuyana, but colors are limited and they’re expensive.

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I think it’d be fun! Where was it, if you don’t mind my asking? Doing it with a couple friends would be a good time.

I think I’m a warm. I’d have fun doing a color analysis though. Report back Copa!

Wendy is absolutely right. LW, FWB only works if you’re ok with casual sex. I’ve been in both situations:FWB with zero problems because we both just liked having sex w/ one another but knew that’s all it was. And the FWB where he felt like a boyfriend and it took a lot of therapy to unpack that.

This is telling: “We didn’t see each other or do anything for the whole month and then last Sunday I texted him, he came over and we had sex just like the first day. He was looking into my eyes kissing me.”

Just from that sentence alone, it was easy to see you either have more than FWB feelings or on the verge of them.

You didn’t do anything wrong. He didn’t do anything wrong.

This is a good learning experience, especially understanding what you’re comfortable with intimacy-wise. He was honest and respectful of your feelings. Not all people will be.