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I’m still a college student and, with my grades, my future is set as I already have a job waiting for me upon graduation. I’m also working at a decent agency in my field, so I have no money issue and I’m living comfortably. But despite having my own income, I’d like to be treated every now and then by my boyfriend. Because of his saying that he’s incapable of taking me out, I feel a little unhappy and disappointed.
Am I being selfish? Is it wrong for me to be upset over this? I know I shouldn’t stress him further by expecting him to bring me to nice places, but that’s what I ultimately wish for in a relationship. What’s more important? Is it wise to give up on love for money? — Likes Being Treated
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