In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me:
Recently, I have been considering moving cross country for a fresh start with one of my best friends. This excites me and scares me, but I feel so torn because I love my boyfriend so much. I guess I don’t want to give up on the relationship, but on the other hand, I feel like if he really loved me he would do everything in his power to try to get me to stay. I don’t know what to do. I graduated college and am still serving tables, so I am not fulfilled in my career, and just kind of feel like I need to start over. But it always comes back to him. I love him so much and I really did think he would be it for me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I am having a very hard time with this. — Time to Move On?