Here’s what we’re discussing this week in the forums:
Do not know how to deal with widower feeling guilty dating me
Baby Shower Perspective/Etiquette
I met someone, but I screwed it all up because I’m afraid to be gay
Conflicted About Nephew’s / Godson’s Wedding invite
Siblings dispute regarding mother’s funeral
How can I stop being attracted to men?
Anyone going on awesome dates?
Julia Cumes for The NYTimes
If you’ve received an invitation to a wedding recently, along with an RSVP card and a link to the couple’s registry might also be an additional note, brand new in 2021 to the wedding-planning landscape: [continue reading…]
Yesterday’s LW, a 23-year-old young woman dating a 41-year-old man who lives with his parents, sent me an email after she saw my response and your comments, and though her reply isn’t so much an “update,” I thought it was worth highlighting here so that we may collectively help her – and maybe someone else in her situation reading this — see the light and avoid further trauma. Her response to yesterday’s column:
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We’ve been having so many disagreements lately, and I feel that not having our own space is making it worse. We would have been able to spend all weekends together, but now that’s out of the picture unless he gets us a hotel room. I don’t want to feel like his mistress, and I shouldn’t have to. I don’t know what to do or where to even begin with him. He takes everything as a personal attack, so my attempting to talk about it with him would implode. Help!! — Not His Mistress
I haven’t done a “From the Mailbag” post in a while, but I’ve got a good one today! This LW took issue with the advice I gave in this oldie but goodie column: “Our Beautiful Neighbor Lady is Getting Too Close with My Husband.” See why:
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