From the forums: I’m a 27-year-old female virgin. I didn’t plan on remaining a virgin for this long, but after seeing sex produce so many negative ripple effects, I find it just kinda happened. I’ve watched the complexities of sex downgrade so many women’s lives and minds. Complexities like the insulting pain of being used… Read more
We invited my 20-year-old niece to visit us in Florida and she said she would come if she could bring her boyfriend. We bought their tickets, which were expensive, and re-arranged medical stuff because of their short notice. The morning they were expected to arrive they let us know that they had given up their… Read more
I have been with this guy, “Tony,” for a year and four months. He’s 30 now and I am only 24. Age is not an issue in this case though. At the beginning, he told me he did not want a relationship due to the fact he had been cheated on by his fiancée in… Read more
From the forums: I have been dating someone for two years and I love him with all my heart. We live together in the northwest, but I’m originally from the east coast. Recently, I went back home (by myself) for the first time in six years to see old friends. While there, I went out… Read more
I’d love some of your wisdom and that of your generous and intelligent readers. I am remembering your post about how your 40s are a time when life gets real — friends get divorced, children or spouses die, parents die or get old, etc., and I am learning that is true. I’m also thinking about… Read more
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