Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

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It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Scared He’ll Be a Schlub,” whose update was actually a comment she left on the original post yesterday but one I’m… Read more

My boyfriend is 52, I’m 48, and and we have been together eight years. For the first four years we had a normal amount of sex that I was happy with. But for the last four years, we’ve had less and less each year. And now it’s maybe four times a year, always involving alcohol… Read more

My in-box could use a little attention! If you have a relationship issue – romantic, platonic, familial, collegial – that you need some advice on, I’d love to help you out. If you’re cool with your letter possibly being published and answered in this space right here – anonymously, of course! – shoot me at… Read more