Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy


Hope everyone’s had a good week! We’ve been in Missouri, spending time with my parents and extended family and celebrating my mom’s birthday. We head back him tomorrow. Happy Mother’s Day to all who celebrate, and happy weekend to everyone. Here are a few links you might find interesting: Love in the time of Covid… Read more

Happy Friday! We’ve made it to the end of April – what T.S. Eliot famously called “the cruelest month.” For many of us, the pandemic winter – both the literal one and the figurative one – is over and we are moving to the next phase: the re-birth of spring. Tomorrow Drew and the kids… Read more

I started dated my fiancée, “Karen,” in 2018 when she was 23 and I was 26. I proposed to her last month on our three-year anniversary. She has a great heart and personality (when she isn’t upset or angry), but she grew up unstable. When she was 9, her mother and father separated. Her father… Read more

My spouse of 23 years was diagnosed with terminal cancer last August. In September, after starting chemo, she told me a coworker would shave her head. I said I wanted to do it, and she offered that, because he was bald, he would be best. She brought home an electric razor a few days later… Read more

Here’s what we’re discussing this week in the forums: The world right now – emotionally exhausted Feeling like there’s no one out there for me Best friends husband’s cheated while at a bachelor party Why did he kiss me if he wasn’t interested? How to approach a relationship without coming off “too perfect”? Why did… Read more