I met a girl about eight weeks ago and we really hit it off. On the second date she told me that she had previously planned a trip to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro in Tanzania with another guy. Climbing that mountain was her life’s dream. She was training five hours a day. She had only met…
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Here’s what we’re discussing this week in the forums: I feel guilty indulging in sex as a caretaker for my mom with dementia Sister just bought a house. Feeling left behind! Friend has gone distant and I’m not sure how to address it I’m not sure I want to be with my baby’s father My…
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I plan on moving shorty after my youngest graduates high school. He is 15 now and I also have a 17-year-old, both boys. I moved in 2013 to Illinois from Wisconsin so they could be closer to their dad. I have no family and no close friends here. My boyfriend lives in Georgia, and I…
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Hi, it’s been a while! I’ve decided to no longer post and answer letters involving topics I feel like I’ve covered enough already, but this is a new issue and I wanted to share it (trigger warning: mention of suicide). Almost ten years ago now, my husband died by suicide. It was gruesome, and I…
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Here’s what we’re discussing this week in the forums: The reappearing ex How can I be more interesting? Very confused…please help Should I stay or should I go? Am I in the wrong? Boyfriend being so easy-going with older women Is she messing with me? Or is it something else? I met my soulmate but…
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