“My Fiancé Takes Creep Shots of Women’s Feet At Work”

​​It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great that being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go. I found four videos on my fiancé’s mobile of women at work with close-ups of their feet. “Dan” is filming them while helping them with their computers and they have no idea. I am in shock and disgusted. Do I contact the police and HR where he works? I also found two videos of poor women in town who had no…

“My Doctor Has the Hots for Me”

A physician who screened me for breast cancer two and a half years ago has had the hots for me since day one. He is two years older than I am and is a single father to a son. His Baby Mama bailed out on them when the kid was weeks old, and much to his surprise, at 31 I don’t have any children and I’ve never been pregnant. We regularly bump into each other and we have both been apparently single throughout this time period. He has been too hesitant to make a move although he professes to be in love with me and to be seeking a long-term relationship, even…

“My Boyfriend’s Sister Wants to Break Us Up”

My boyfriend, “Jim,” was off-and-on (mostly off) with his ex-girlfriend, “Gayle,” for close to a decade. During this time, Jim’s sister, “Rebecca” despised Gayle. After his and Gayle’s relationship fell apart yet again — with Gayle stealing a considerable sum of money from him — Rebecca and Gayle have suddenly become inseparable. For the first six months of our relationship, Rebecca could not separate her friendship with Gayle from her relationship with Jim. She actively tried to help get them back together and for months belittled and ridiculed Jim’s and my relationship. During this time, Jim and I continued trying to be nice, inviting Rebecca to dinner, etc., until the torrent of…

“My Boyfriend Blames Me For Everything Wrong in His Life”

I have been seeing a guy who’s going through a divorce and we were good friends before that. He is living with his mother right now. He talks all the time about our getting married, and when he is in a good mood, our relationship is perfect. He talks about how much I have helped him and how he wouldn’t be able to do things without me and how I am his life. But when he is in a bad mood, he completely shuts me out and makes everything my fault. It’s like he is a completely different person. He doesn’t care what he loses and doesn’t need help from anyone. How…

“After a Fight, I Don’t Know If I Still Want to Marry My Fiancé”

My fiancé, “Jim,” and I have been together for about three years now, and we just got engaged a month ago. Everything has been pretty much perfect, but last night we got into a big fight which ended with him leaving our room and sleeping on the couch. The topic of the fight sort of blossomed out of me having a problem at work where my boss put me on shifts when she knew I had school, to which he said that what I was worried about was “stupid” and “ridiculous” and he “didn’t get it,” which hurt my feelings because I felt it was important. I explained that this scheduling issue…

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