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Yeah I know not everyone is happy,however I meant it as not as empathetic a response as I would hope. Like if I were struggling to lose weight and went to a fit friend and he told me, well being fit is super tough. I prefer advice not a comparison. I didnt tell him anything though ?. I appreciate he is willing to listen to me whine
Glad everyone is doing so well, lots of success cases from this thread. I have been struggling a lot lately. Haven’t met anybody new since my breakup (that was almost a year ago). Haven’t really gone on dates, maybe two total. I am really feeling down, the thing is I am definitely not where I thought I’d be at 32 yo. Seems like everyone is better off. I am lonelier than ever, don’t have that many friends, I have taken on new hobbies, joined beauty school.
Anyways, how do I deal with not being where I wanted to be? I don’t mean married or kids,I mean I am miserable rn. I was never like that. I thought at 32 I would be happy wherever I was, yet some days I really struggle getting out of bed. I volunteer now,I try to go out more… Friends aren’t really that helpful. Tried talking to a close friend of mine who said “well, being married is tough too”.yeah I bet, being married,having a partner for life makes you cry yourself to sleep…There was a HUGE step taken towards approving gay marriage in my country today (traditionally Catholic country, Catholic religion is established as official in the Constitution).
This makes me so happy. People are celebrating in the streets.
It’s not approved yet but a huge step.I think I’ve never felt lonelier than during this holiday season. I am about to cry at work, everybody is saying their goodbyes until next year, and well, I’m alone. My family never really celebrates Christmas, there has never been a big dinner or anything. There are some traditions, but nothing major. Friends celebrate Christmas with their families. So, anyways, I hope 2018 will treat me better.
Yes, we rescheduled. He apologized profusely and even told me that, since he coulnd’t find an uber he was walking. That’s when I decided to leave and told him no, I’ve been waiting 40 minutes already, if You walk this is going to take longer. But at least he apologized.
@TheLadyE, sorry for your sister, but yeah, that was coming. Although, didn’t he know already that he was’t ready with all the family drama?I had a (kinda-blind) coffee date today, a friend of a friend who once saw me but I had a boyfriend back then. We texted before the date and he sounded a lot of fun.
Buuuuut… I got to the date on time and the guy says that he is a little late because there’s a Christmas parade in his town and main roads are closed. I waited 40 mins before I left, I was so pissed. At least I got a good cup of coffee.Most engagement photos are lame. Some (but very little) are cool though. But that’s my opinion. I don’t judge people who do that. My cousin did engagement pics and they put it in their centerpieces. It looked ok.
I am OBSSESSED with Say Yes to The Dress. My whole family calls me when the show is on.
I have an ex who is a friend. Another one I was friens with several years after the breakup, but then it all faded.
@MissDre letting go of insecurities is hard and takes a lot of balls. It has happened to me twice already, people who I though I was going to marry bailed. Like with my first BF, who even showed me where “we are going to live” and eveything. I don’t know how I will do when another relationship comes along.That sounds like a fun date!
I’m not a big follower of royalty news or anything like that but I watched the interview with Prince Harry and his fiancée and damn, that was sweet.
