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And just because sometimes I feel like asking my boyfriend to come to my place to spend time together is a nag, doesn’t mean that I don’t want to see him. But if I don’t express it correctly, he might think that. Thankfully, he’s always been more straightforward.
Well, not everyone expresses their feelings so easily. I still have trouble telling my boyfriend of one year that I want to see him. And he’s been my boyfriend for a year. And yet I have difficulties telling him to come to my house that is 20 minutes away from his, because I lack the ability to express my feelings so easily and because I think that it would be a burden for him to come. I don’t know, sometimes is hard to put yourself out there and say “I want to see you”, maybe because of the fear of rejection.
Anyways, give him some time and then take the next step. He sounds lovely and worhty of a chance.He probably wants to see you, but him being busy for 4-5 weekends might mean that you would have to drive up there. So, he might be embarrassed to ask for that. That’s why asking him if you guys could get together sooner than that could help.
I might be the minority here, but IMHO everyone is overthinking this.
It’s probable that Veritek is right now replacing her “awesome date” feelings for “I’m worried” feelings. Worried about the fact that he has plans for the next 4-5 week, so she’s may not be as excited and happy about her last date.
Why worry so much about what he/she says? If you want to see him sooner, then tell him.For me, it’s not a code for anything else, more than watching tv on the couch all snuggled up. We’re watching some shows together, so, sometimes we decide on a “netflix date” that means we’ll watch an episode or two over tea or something.
Netflix dates are awesome. And not just for the kids, I’m almost 30 lol
I had a nice date on saturday. It was our first anniversary yesterday for my boyfriend and me. On saturday we had a five-course italian candlelit dinner and yesterday, on our actual anniversary, we hung out watching netflix, then we went for gelato and later we watched some more netflix. I loved the way we celebrated. It was an amazing year, hopefully the first celebrations of many.
@hfantods Is this the same guy that was causing you to rethink your plan to drive to Ottawa? Because that is a very dumb thing to say, so maybe rethink again.
6-7 months is not so much of a red flag. Most long term relationships are over long time before they are officially over. Maybe he is just starting to date after the break up, which sounds fine.
