Veritek–to address the lube question (ha) I’m not sure that’s what he was getting at. It definitely could have been prompted by the lube (in the way that perhaps he was trying to figure out if you were hooking up with other people, because even if guys know you’re not exclusive they’re usually insanely curious about this but afraid to bring up the conversation), or it could have been that he was curious about future adult fun time and asking about a vibrator to see if you’d want to use it or if you like toys in general etc. I guess I’m saying there could be several reasons it came up and it could have nothing to do with wondering why a grown woman would have lube or trying to make you feel weird about that (I feel like most women do, even if it’s just hanging around there for a while, y’know? lol 🙂