veritek33
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Stone I’m so very sorry. I don’t think ANY of us saw that coming from what you’ve shared with us. Not even a tiny hint of that. He truly does sound like just a terrible person, and he’s now revealed himself so that maybe it’ll be easier to get over him and find the primary partner you want and deserve.
@BGM I just got asked out on a picnic date! How timely of you.
Happy hour guy asked me out last night to a musical his friends are in next week and said we can do a picnic beforehand. This is the first time he’s put that much initiative into coming up with a plan and actually asking me with more than a day’s notice, so it’s the first time it actually feels like a date lol. Expectations will continue to be low though. I do love picnics however.
Stone do you want help burning his house down? Im’ so sorry 🙁
@stone I don’t think you have to figure it all out right now. Can you take a week or two apart and see how you feel? I would feel like the rug had been pulled from me too. Completely understandable.
@kare yes, happy hour guy and I got together for dinner last week! He is absolutely a blast to hang out with but he was very upfront about not knoing what he wants but open to friendships so I literally just see him as a friend. He works multiple jobs like I do so it’s hard to find a time we can both hang out but we grabbed dinner last week and he told me about his trip to comi-con and we compared back injuries since he has similar problems lol.
I’m honestly super burned out on dating right now so I’m just not going on any so that’s why I have nothing to share right now. Unless someone is super exciting to me I’m just not into it right now. So I painted another room of my house, went on a road trip and have really gotten back into going to the gym now that my back is recovered.
@lucia and @stone I’ve tried to think of something helpful or profound to say to either of you but I just don’t have it. Mourning lost possibilities just sucks. I definitely know what it’s like to be excited and click with someone and then it ends and you don’t necessarily mourn that person, just the possibility that’s not there anymore. So I guess that’s my way of saying I totally get it and I hope you both feel better and take good care of yourselves and something better with more possibility comes along soon.
Congrats kare on your promotion! Sounds like an awesome weekend and an even better start to your week!
@stone 🙁 I’m really sorry that happened. You can definitely get attached in 6 months. Take some time for you and I don’t know if you’re a hugger, but here’s an internet hug from me to you
I don’t mean to throw myself on the fire here so be kind but I learned that lesson the hard way.
My last serious relationship was with a guy who was super attentive and into me and super awesome in the beginning and told me after dating for like 6 weeks or something that he wanted to marry me and I was like the best thing since sliced bread. I told him we shouldn’t even have those conversations until AT LEAST 6 months into the relationship and so he just kept saying he’d propose when we’d been together for 6 months. Well, we broke up right at 6 months because I’m human and didn’t live up to all his expectations and he kept finding all the things “wrong” with me,” meaning as Lianne said – not what he wanted.
So. Now I know that’s a red flag and a lesson learned.
Thanks Ale! I will check that one out! I’m still quite pathetic at Pullups and T2B but I’ll get there someday 🙂
@Ale Thanks! I was actually doing a push press when it popped in my lower back so kind of the opposite of a deadlift. It might have been poor form or me just trying to lift too much too soon. I don’t have many friends in the crossfit community that have this type of problem so it’s nice to hear from someone who had a similar experience! Is there a lifting belt you would recommend? I don’t even know where to start looking for one.
Okay, back to dating stories and such. I have nothing to contribute except I’m having dinner with happy hour guy again.
