veritek33
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Well, jimmyjam, I wasn’t really asking for advice. This was just a thread to share dating stories. Right now I’m dating a guy. I never said I was in a relationship. I never called him my boyfriend. I’m dating him. That’s it. We talk every day, and we make plans to see each other when we can. Right now I don’t see anything wrong with that. I would love to him more but life is what it is right now.
You are well within your rights to think I’m a complete idiot and that you’re right and I’m wrong and that’s fine. We’ll just have to see what happens. Right now I’m enjoying having to this man in my life in whatever capacity we can both make happen.
Wow okay. Thanks for your input. We’ll agree to disagree.
Jimmy jam- who are you directing that at?
@regina he really is. I mean the only things wrong with him are the distance and he doesn’t know what he wants,right? No big deals 😉 I’m just hanging back to see what happens. He’s so sweet and makes me feel amazing, so for now I’m taking it.
Ktfran I can wait either!! 12 more days!
@ktfran may I call him your boyfriend? BOY FRIEND BOY FRIEND BOY FRIEND! Sorry, I just had to 🙂
@Regina oh wow I’m glad that a little mechanical help is working out for you! That’s awesome.I have zero advice for anyone today, just wanted to share that last night when my mom did one of her semi regular crazy calls (i’m always doing something that doesn’t make her happy) I talked to Tinder Teacher (or Q as ktfran likes to call him) and he told me every joke he could think of to make me feel better. And we shared a glass of wine via phone. It sucks him being 2.5 hours away, but even so, he’s better at making me feel good than many of the men I’ve dated. So there’s that 🙂
Stone that sucks. I’m sorry friend. Your weekend plans sound super nice though, I hope you get some much needed “you” time.
I recently won a drawing for a spa gift card and I’m thinking after this month of moving, traveling 15 out of 20 days and still working three jobs I’m gonna need it lol!
Moneypenny I hope your date is at least fun! Maybe you’ll meet a new friend at the least? Or maybe he’s really awesome in person. Either way I hope you have a nice time.
Haha I’ll try! I offered up a corn maze and a pumpkin patch when he came down last weekend and he was like “Ummmm we’ll have a good time, EVEN if you make me go to a pumpkin patch or corn maze.” So that might not be his idea of a good time lol.
@ktfran yes, I told him I can come up there Nov. 7 and he joked about getting a root canal instead… 😉 I’m looking forward to it. I wanna see how we interact with one another again. I’m hopeful but trying to be realistic.
Oh, Ktfran, I’ll be in the Quincy area Nov. 7ish – you nearby?
@ktfran the first “argument/fight” is always the hardest, and it sounds like it went okay! I’m glad you talked it out. That’s always the best thing.
@LadyE I really don’t like that his first reaction was “woah”. That just seems, I dunno, immature? You’re grown ass adults and you asked for a kiss. What’s the big deal? I’m glad you talked it out but I’d be cautious.
@ktfran I hate that. I friggin hate cancelled plans, especially if I’m pumped for them or got my shit together in order to make it happen. I’m glad you told him because I’d be the one sitting there being mad and saying nothing.@mucha That feeling does suck. Is there anything he can do to make it better? Like make sure to check in with you once a day? Set aside an after noon or something? Hopefully it’s over soon.
As for me, still talking to Tinder Teacher each day. Nothing really new to report. Looking forward to seeing him again soon.
