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Worrytrain update:
Tinder Teacher and I were talking Monday night and I just went ahead and told him that four weeks is a long time and maybe we could try to split the difference and I’d be happy to come halfway or all the way on a Sunday or Saturday night because I’d really like to see him again, but if it just really couldn’t happen that was okay and that he was worth the wait. He gave me smile and said that he would “try to figure something out”. So I’m choosing to see the positive in that and not freak out just yet. He also worked into the conversation that his friends know about me and that he showed the secretaries at work my picture and they think I’m cute. (ego boost)So I’ll hang back a bit and see what he “figures out.” Besides, I’m moving in three weeks so I’m a little busy too!
Money, I hope your date went well and I’d have been frustrated with no plans too!
Caught up in my own foolishness I forgot:
Happy birthday Regina!!
AND I hope you have a wonderful date Moneypenny! I expect to hear all about it!
Oh he texted me this morning. We talk every day.
Well, lemme think here. I don’t think the words “I want to see you sooner” actually came out of my mouth. I mostly just pouted about it being 4 weeks but told him I understood. I know that’s splitting hairs, but I don’t think I actually used the words “i want to see you sooner”. Which I still can, I suppose.
@Lianne I think I only meant it was a bad part for me. He was apologetic but I get it, this is his busy time of year. It wasn’t like he blew me off or anything.
I was just thinking maybe sometime this week offering to come up for a Saturday night or Sunday and he can come down next time. I look at the football schedule and they do have a few home games right in a row. So it makes sense why he’s busy. Or I can suggest meeting halfway on a Sunday for lunch or something.
Happy birthday to you too Lianne! I didn’t think to suggest it yesterday but I don’t mind going up there again. I think he feels like it’s his turn to come down here, but if there’s a football game I don’t mind going up there again and he can make it up to me later. He didn’t have any suggestions but we didn’t have much time to talk about it.
@kate says to hang back and see what he does and if he steps up. I don’t know. I don’t mind offering to go up there again but I also don’t want to be doing all the work. I also don’t mind meeting halfway but I haven’t suggested that yet.
Thanks Wendy 🙂
@ktfran that sounds wonderful 🙂 I’m so happy for you. You do whatever feels best for you to do!
My weekend went really well. I came up to the Illinois Saturday morning (such a pretty drive) and arrived at the football game by the second quarter. I got to watch Tinder teacher in action directing the band and they were great! I didn’t expect to see him until the end of the game but in the third quarter after the band was done and had their instruments in the trailer he came and sat with me! And the he walked around and introduced me to some of his co workers and we got a soda and waited out the game so he could take the trailer back to the school. Then he showed me his classroom and the band room and took me to a practice room because “he really wanted to kiss me as soon as he saw me but isn’t into PDA and the practice rooms don’t have windows ;)”
Then we went back to his apartment and I got a tour and met his cat and then we might have enjoyed a bit of bedroom time. And after chilling for a bit we got dressed and had some wine and he taught me a few notes on his guitar (i totally suck but it was so hot watching him play his guitar)
Then we went to this Mormon restaurant where they don’t serve alcohol (that’s why we pre drank) and they had an amazingly good buffet. He kept saying “please don’t tell your friends i took you to a buffet for your birthday” lol but it was in this quaint little hotel restaurant and it was really cool and the food was amazing. And after that we went for a drive because it was such a beautiful night out and then back to his apartment where we might have ended up in bed again. But we watched some movies on netflix and drank more wine and it was great. I have been so stressed with everything going on in my life right now and I swear it just lifts when I’m around him. He makes me feel so comfortable. We stayed up till about midnight and then fell asleep.
I had to wake up early to get back to town by 10 yesterday so I set my alarm pretty early but he woke right up and told he happy birthday, and then had amazing birthday sex (haha) and snuggled for about an hour before I just absolutely had to go. He made sure I had coffee and walked me down to my car.
The only sour not/bad part is when I asked when I could see him again and he has band stuff going on for the next four weekends so he cant come down here. I didn’t offer to come up there yet but I might if he says anything. I really don’t think he’s blowing me off, but it’s gonna suck going 4-5 weeks without seeing him. I might write wendy for some long distance tips because a 3 hour drive on a weekday just really isn’t feasible. But it was an amazing weekend. Sorry for the novel 🙂
@floats YAY!! That’s awesome
@ktfran I would love to “accidentally” run into you in Quincy 😉@stone I hope things get better on all fronts for you.
@hfantods with regards to being 26 and no kissing (and i would assume no sex) I will tell you a secret. Psssst….. I didn’t kiss or lose my virginity till I was 26. It’s really not a big deal 🙂
But, that being said, if you only like him because he’s showing interest, then you can do better. Make sure you really like him if you want to continue dating. Good luck 🙂
Also, I’M GOING TO SEE TINDER TEACHER IN 3 DAYS AND I’M A LITTLE EXCITED!! His band is playing the halftime show at a game Saturday so I’m driving up to see it and spending the weekend. How’s that for a third date? lol
Thank you Regina Chapman! That made me smile this morning 🙂
@moneypenny I love that GIF. And I love that you’re all so supportive of my sexcapades. I’ll keep you updated.
