Here’s what I think about sleep sex. It is a sleep disorder like talking, walking or eating in one’s sleep. I believe it is called sexsomnia. Some say that it is not possible, but it is. I had this, and it was hard for me to overcome this disorder. My wife would tell me I had sex with her while she slept, but I would not remember doing it or feeling it. To me, it was like a dream that was acted out. I would not know or remember doing this to her. She tried to say I raped her, but the fact that this is a sleep disorder prevented her from pressing charges. But she did leave me because she did want to help me find a solution to my problem. I went to a therapist, and he suggested a few exercises and meditation. I’m finally over it, and I have noticed the difference in my attitude towards women. I mean, I’m not as lustful and am more respectful. — Ex-Sexsomniac
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