Reply To: “Fiancé Didn’t Defend Me to His Abusive Father”

I wouldn’t stay with a man like this. He wouldn’t render you basic first aid and cares more about his relationship with his incredibly still abusive father.

You need to look for a man who will defend you against other people, bare minimum. That’s not a big ask.

His father is a mess, and I hate to say this but he most likely needs therapy to deal with this type of trauma, or I’d be concerned about future tensions, abuses, how he span does stress and perceived waste of water? Seriously, you had a burn and were cooking for THEM.

They can go eff themselves. I don’t care how apologetic he is now about it, unless he’s also booking an appointment with a therapist I would walk away. He respects his abusive father over anything else, that’s a huge issue. Even his own fiancé, even his own comfort. This is a serious issue.