Reply To: I cannot tell if this is a green flag or the reddest flag ever.

Yes to what copa said about actually get to know someone. Usually great guys don’t wander around telling people how great they are. That’s a red flag. If someone says, Trust me, my inherent urge is to question that. You should notice that they are, in fact awesome on their own, trustworthy on their own, without an audience, others trust them, their friends say only glowing things. I agree that this seems too early in his “healing journey.” Also, if you like that space, book club, etc I would not get involved with anyone who is involved with the group.