Reply To: SPEED ADVICE!

@nico_lette After 8 months, it’s not too early to ask your boyfriend whether he sees a future with you. Just ask him. If he freaks out, well, better you know where you stand now before you invest anymore time and energy. If he doesn’t, then you’ll have a better sense about whether you’re on the same page. I don’t know what you don’t want to have a “big talk.” If you want marriage and kids in the forseeable future, wouldn’t it be advisable to find out if the guy you’ve invested 8 months with wants those things in the foreseeable future too? Don’t be ashamed of wanting what you want. It’s a disservice we women make to ourselves.