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What a pair of dicks. Both of them. Selfish idiots.
@MissDre mentioned how the guy facetimed her from airports and so. He is clearly pulling back. I imagine a pilot job in Middle East to be most likely UAE, Saudi Arabia or Qatar, some of the richest countries in the world, where there is most likely, wifi. If he used to facetime all of the time and now isn’t, that is weird. That being said, Miss Dre, I think you need to chill a little bit and stop over analyzing everything and waiting for him to reach out.
I once dated a friend of mine, we had been friends for two years and we started dating. A month into casually dating he got a scholarship to do his PhD in Europe. He proceeded to tell me that he had been offered the scholarship and then he dissappeared. A couple weeks later he told me he had taken it. So, he ghosted me, and he WAS my friend, we were close. We are still friends anyway, but what I mean is that anyone can do that, even someone who is close to you.
Also, my best friend started dating a guy who introduced her to her friends on the second date, made plans for a trip overseas on the same date. They texted every day, good morning, good night, calls. He reduced a lot of the talking and blamed it on being sick/tired/too busy. What happened? He realized things were going too fast and pulled on the brakes really hard. I don’t know why but it happens. People do this all the time, being 20, 30, 40.
@MissDre honestly this all sounds like too much to take at only two months dating. Sorry the timing seems to be off right now.
Also, @veritek I had my first back injury about 2 to 3 months after I started crossfit. I think it was because of the poor for I had performing some exercises. That first one was really bad and painful. It was my lower back, and I was doing deadlifts. I realized that my core was very weak, so I tried to develop core strenght. I recommend you do the same. I’ve had back pain just two more times in 3 years and these have never been as bad as the first one. So, get that core strong. Also, get a lifting weight belt. These are awesome for those moves, I don’t care how much I am deadlifting, I always wear my belt and never got any more injuries.
I feel the same way as MissDre. I do have a boyfriend but my closest friend is currently dating, and every two or three months she meets some guy who is awesome and great and the one. For instance, she met a guy about two or three weeks ago on Tinder and started dating him. At first she told me about the guy: rich, handsome, successful, bussiness owner, only 30 years old, likes basically the same things she likes, and they are a match. I inmediately start thinking, sooo, where’s the catch? Why is a guy like this single? I am skeptical like that, when a guy is so awesome there’s got to be something.
Now, I see tons of red flags but she doesn’t see anything. For instance, he introduced her to his friends on the second date, and made her lie to them about how they met. Apparently, he didn’t want his friends to know that they met through Tinder, so he came up with a story that they met in College and they didn’t even attend the same one. They started planning a trip for the Desert Trip that is until October, on that same second date. He has told her he doesn’t want a relationship but promises that they will be together for a long time. Also, talks about his ex gfs as “crazy” and “gold diggers”, and also had one that was a very “hot model”.
In this case, the “catch” IMO is not manageable, the guy sounds like a dick. But sometimes the catch is something you can deal with, or learn to deal with, but there is always something, specially at our age (early 30’s).So, what shit did you find out about your boss?
He was probably testing to see if you wanted to go. Or maybe he thought that by telling you that he was letting you know that you were invited. If you don’t want to ask him maybe bring the trip up sometime to see if he asks you again.
And just because sometimes I feel like asking my boyfriend to come to my place to spend time together is a nag, doesn’t mean that I don’t want to see him. But if I don’t express it correctly, he might think that. Thankfully, he’s always been more straightforward.
Well, not everyone expresses their feelings so easily. I still have trouble telling my boyfriend of one year that I want to see him. And he’s been my boyfriend for a year. And yet I have difficulties telling him to come to my house that is 20 minutes away from his, because I lack the ability to express my feelings so easily and because I think that it would be a burden for him to come. I don’t know, sometimes is hard to put yourself out there and say “I want to see you”, maybe because of the fear of rejection.
Anyways, give him some time and then take the next step. He sounds lovely and worhty of a chance.He probably wants to see you, but him being busy for 4-5 weekends might mean that you would have to drive up there. So, he might be embarrassed to ask for that. That’s why asking him if you guys could get together sooner than that could help.
