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Like BGM said, drama.
Did you have to drag him for telling you his feelings? “Not interested” would have sufficed.To tell him he is being selfish and all of that.. I don’t think he is being selfish. You are being selfish. Not eveything is about you.
@Copa, the L word? That’s awesome that things are going so great for you.
Update: I don’t have to decide anything about my friendship with the guy I posted about above,I just found out he blocked me everywhere. Moving on…
I’ve never made a big deal for Valentine’s day, even in a couple. A couple years ago my exboyfriend cooked dinner for me and that was the first and only time that he cooked and that we did something.
This year I think I’ll send funny stuff to my friends, like chocolates or such, and I’ll lay low.This whole incident with the video has been too much and has reinforced my idea of taking a break from dating and anything that is close to dating.
Has anyone used the fitness ring? The one that is a wedding band but tracks your calories and steps. My sister is thinnking of getting one for her husband.
Yeah, I don’t know if I want to pursue this friendship. We were FWB for a couple of months years ago, but that was definitely not happening recently. And even if we were, I don’t think sending something like that is allowed, unless you talk about it first, which we had not. I know I am not difficult, I have good friends. He definitely misunderstood what was going on, but I’m done justifying men’s actions.
Veritek your rings are very pretty!
Sorry to hijack this thread from the ring talk but something happened to me that I haven’t processed well, I think.
I had a FWB about six years ago that ended because I met my ex boyfriend and because he was having feelings for me. We remained friends for a while but then this guy disappeared. Anyways, we got in touch last October and we remembered all the fun we had (not only sex), we have a lot in common, we have a great time together, etc. He was coming off a fresh breakup. We have hung out about once a week, and last time we hung out we kissed (we were both a little tipsy). When he got home he sent me a video of him masturbating… Keep in mind that we had only kissed and nothing else happened, and this was a “close friend” of mine. I was shocked but didn’t say anything. Two days later he apologized and said that it was too much I said it was ok, I didn’t know what else to say. I just stopped talking to him until he texted me a couple of days ago and I said that I wasn’t really ok with all. I felt dirty. He told me that I was hard to read, that I was “difficult”, that he didn’t know how to treat me. I said that video was uncalled for, I never asked for anything like that from you. He kept texting but I didn’t want to talk anymore so I said that. A couple hours later he sent me a whatsapp audio nine minutes long. I deleted it without listening to it. I haven’t talked to him since.
Is there anything else to do? Did I do right?Rick and Morty is the best.
Thanks for the advice. I am definitely going to take a break. Good for you Copa!
So, I kept dating a guy I posted about earlier. He is great, although I kept hoping for more sparks, we kept dating and seeing what happened. But, as it turns out, he still has strong plans to move to Europe in a couple months. I definitely don’t want a LDR and it’s not in my plans to move abroad anytime soon. So, this really kept me from investing more in this relationship and this guy caught on. So, yesterday we had the talk. He says he is more than happy to go on as friends, and hang out when we can, and all of that because in my mind he will always be the guy who wants to leave. I can’t stand the thought of being with someone if they plan on leaving.
Anyways, this has really bummed me. I feel down. I think I will take a break from Tinder and trying to meet new people because I keep thinking why make all of the effort if it all ends like this. It’s really tiring. And I know I haven’t been on as many dates as many people have, I’ve only met like 5 or 6 people of Tinder, but I kind of have the feeling today that it’s never going to happen.
Holiday blues is still affecting me I guess. But anyways, I guess I’ll be ok, I am busy with a lot of stuff right now, training for the inka trail and my first 10 k.I had my third date yesterday with a guy I really like. We went to have coffee and we closed the place and the took a walk. Still no kiss! I was gonna go for it but then I chickened out.
I kind of know he likes me and we text every single day. He’s said things that make me think that he likes me too.
Anyways he told me that he is planning to go abroad for school in the next year.
Damn.I’m sorry you’re going through that JD. Internet hugs your way
This sweater I’m talking about is white, has pockets and has pearl-like buttons in the back. I think it’s pretty cute. Thanks for the input!
