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do you follow him on twitter? he’s hilarious.
wow 27,000 is crazy!!!
i love orphan black! she could play anyone, she could portray every dwer in one movie.
i can totally see tina fey playing you AP. i’d watch the movie! and of course i’d expect to be invited over for wine and cheese for the opening and to meet tina.
so leave the forum if you’re done? why does it affect you so much that people want to keep discussing things on this thread especially if it’s not directly related to your question?
also firestar’s thread is terrifying. that is the bad place anything could happen can lead.
there seems to be a disconnect between you saying you don’t want it to happen but you sometimes wish it would. your reactions to people’s advice make it seem like you actually wish that it would happen more than is healthy. people do get divorced sure, but it sucks. and you really need to let go of that thought process of it happens if you ever want to get over this guy.
who would play you in a movie addie pray? have i ever mentioned there is a dodge dealership here called addie harbor dodge? makes me think of you every time i see it or hear a radio ad.
because of comments like your last line, ‘it happens’. just because it happens doesn’t make it appropriate. it doesn’t appear you actually got it if you think that.
this is also one of those times that being the star is not necessarily a good thing.
yes so i was saying figure out what those things are and apply them to currently available people.
@adifferentsarah, that was awesome. this thread has taught us so much.
i mean it’s good that you’re finally seeing that. the thing is he’s always been unattainable. always. like someone mentioned before figure out what qualities he has (beyond looks) that you find attractive and look for them in people who are available right now without x, y and z happening first.
the second part of that is letting go of this guy and the idea that anything could happen. as hopeful as that could be for some people, in this case for you, it’s not.
not making a move is not the same thing as finding a way to move on and focusing on different, healthy, attainable relationships. at this point keeping the anything could happen thing up isn’t healthy for you. you have to be able to move this guy from ‘anything could happen’ to fantasy and let it go. find someone available to focus on.
i thought you were coming around but don’t you see how unlikely it would be for all of those things to happen? that’s why if you can’t keep this a fantasy that you know won’t ever happen you have to move on.
and sure it could happen with any guy. but, really focusing so firmly on a situation that is not likely to happen to the point you can’t give up on it, is not healthy.
on an unrelated note i finally figured out that anything could happen is an ellie goulding song. so now i’m singing that phrase the way she does in that song.
