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Ah, thanks, that sounds a lot better than what I had and your last sentence sounds exactly like the kind of relationship we have.
@stonegypsy I could use some poly advice! I’m maybe kind of who am I kidding totally back together with an ex who is doing exactly none of the things that drove me off last time (7years ago. Everyone’s grown up a ton) we’ve been friends for literally half our lives now and neither of us is looking for a primary in each other, and her current crush has no problem with me. However, I know her goal for the past couple of years has been babies, and she is aware I’m not up for being a coparent. How do I express the fact that I’m fine with going back to being platonic friends if she finds the right guy to do that with but he isn’t into poly? I mean, without sounding like I’m trying to back out now, which is all I hear when I say that out loud to myself. Or am I overthinking?
I ran into my ex Thursday and she gave me her number and her new facebook name almost before I could say anything. I’ve been going back and forth about texting her because she’s a flake which can make me crazy but she is *so much fun* when she isn’t a flake. I think I’m going to settle on texting her sometime this week because otherwise I’ll drive myself crazy all on my own wondering, and then just bail after a while if she seems to have not outgrown any of the flakiness and it still bothers me as much as it used to.
