Carol Evans

Thank you all for your advice. Yes, these are men I am meeting in person and who are ballsy enough to approach me at work, the grocery store, etc. Yes, I find a visceral attraction to very secure masculine macho-type men and it IS if course flattering for me as it would be for any woman. BUT ultimately these men, while having sexual chemistry with me and having had some really good sex with a few in the past now bore ME. Even successful and accomplished ones have few intetersts or knowledge outside of sports and their cars and bars and know little of the world and hang out with the same people as they did when they were teens, while I wanna talk about events, experiences, places I go to, cool people I met all over the world and find them limited. (Their idea of a compliment is that I look like Melania Trump…uh great, I think). But when I meet men who are intelligent and can talk about things they are the whiny Beta males that I cannot find a sexual interest in at all. Hence my dilemma …….I don’t think this idiot was a potential rapist or that he meant to insult me directly, he seemed to be trying to save face and be at least ok holding doors and walking me to my car but I need to know how to find a combo of Alpha and smart.