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ok sarah we know you are 23, we need more physical details. Are you tall? Short? blonde? brunette?
oh Amanda is so good @mrmid. Amanda is also more beautiful than every “ugly” celebrity out there.
haha pennsatucky 🙂 ooh that is mean but it’s so funny!
K-stew is wayyy to mellow to play Sarah.
Oh man now you guys have me thinking about who would play me in a movie. I honestly have never thought about it. Also about who would play AP… It would have to be an outgoing, witty, sexy brunette 🙂 Maybe we should just pick Tatiana Maslany for all of us. Have you guys seen Orphan Black? I am now convinced Tatiana can play any character ever, including Kate B and Addie.
Well just because something happens doesn’t mean it isn’t inappropriate. I classified your current crush as such because it is on your married boss. It doesn’t matter if he *might* not be married or *might* not be your boss in the future, he is now, and you have a crush on him now, so IMHO it is an inappropriate crush. Just like the crush I had on my sexy work colleague who frequented the same gym as me one summer was inappropriate, because I was married at the time. The difference is, I never actually hoped it would go anywhere further than my head, but you seem to hope your crush/fantasy will manifest into something real.
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Let’s put it this way: if someone was mentally fantasizing about sleeping with my husband, yeah it’s inappropriate, but whatever it’s kind of flattering so I don’t really mind too much. However, if someone was actively planning a strategy to get with my husband and hoping he divorced me and laying the ground work for that possible future, I would be pissed. Then again, I don’t think my husband would ever lead someone on in a way that your boss may have (especially not a subordinate), so this is unlikely to happen. Although #anythingispossible, as we’re seeing with Fire star’s husband’s cray cray ex on another thread. I know it’s kind of a fine line between a fantasy that is planned to stay that way and a fantasy that is hoping to morph into something real, but I think a lot of people would agree with my delineation.
OMG I almost commented on this when it was 1 1/2 pages in and everything was sort of normal, but then I was like, no this girl has already gotten good advice and things are settled now. Little did I know… At least today I got to read this whole 45 pages of craziness — with my cinnamon roll in hand half way through 🙂 Kudos especially to Kate, joanna, Wendy, AP, and BGM for adding to the entertainment value of the undeniable star of the thread, Sarah_b.
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@Sarah_b: You seriously need to stop talking to or spending time around this guy as much as you can avoid it given your work situation. I know from experience that inappropriate crushes tend not to fade when you are all up in each other’s business all the time. As motivation, imagine all of the amazing thoughts you could be having if you weren’t so preoccupied with the what-ifs of this guy. At the very least, you could be “aiming higher” with your sexy-time fantasies. For example, you could be day dreaming about Ryan Gosling leaving Eva Mendes and coming for you instead.
