courtney89
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This is a tough one, honestly. I’d feel pretty terrible if my husband missed the wedding of his sibling and it all was for naught (Obviously, would rather have that then the alternative, have something happen..) but obviously who doesn’t want their husband there for the birth? I think i would be okay setting up a doctors appointment the day before and checking on everything, and if getting a green light, lett my husband go? Maybe i think too much like a guy sometimes. I just don’t think i’d want him to miss out on a siblings wedding (Not just a friend’s wedding, my opinion would differ, but his sibling’s wedding). I think i would be okay if he went. Not enthused, but i wouldn’t get myself all worked up about it.
CUTE KITTY!!!
Onward @MissDre! You’re definitely allowed to feel hurt, annoyed and everything else, but his loss right?
And i’m someone who rarely ever has cash (Which is why i always try to pay for myself especially on first dates, i just put my card down for my share..It’s just habit) so i’m going to make sure and have some $5s and $1s handy.
thanks guys! i’m pretty excited about this guy so fingers crossed.
thanks guys! I think i’ll have some cash handy and offer it up. If he takes it, fine, if he refuses it, fine. I always do offer, especially on first “dates/meetings” and would feel bad not- i would hate the idea of someone thinking oh, she just wants free drinks or dinner or whatever.
Dilemma – I have a first “date” with a guy next week (Dating app so i mean, i hardly consider the first meeting a “date” until we figure out whether we even like each other). Do i take out my card to pay my half for the drinks or what?!! I’ve always pulled my card out and a guy last year that i went out with told me “That makes it feel like its just a friends thing, let me pay!” But, i dont EXPECT anyone to pay for me and like to be able to pay my own way! and every guy is different and some get offended.. oui!
muchachae, i have a friend who is the same. She is truly one of the best people i know, she’s intelligent, funny, confident, vibrant and happy and uhh loves sports. I swear, it’s amazing to me how she has NOT gotten swooped up yet, but when it comes to trying to find dates she’s very shy!
I agree with Nookie – what guy is not going to change plans for a girls he is super into? With the possibility of adult alone time?! That may turn into making out at least?! His friend would understand. He needs to be the one to make the effort this time. He’s acting like a guy who just wants to be friends, you deserve better!
Good luck veritek! I feel like i could somewhat relate to your dating stories, i’m pretty guarded myself. Trying to be better about letting people in and up my confidence level. Work in progress lol : )
