courtney89
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thanks guys! I think i’ll have some cash handy and offer it up. If he takes it, fine, if he refuses it, fine. I always do offer, especially on first “dates/meetings” and would feel bad not- i would hate the idea of someone thinking oh, she just wants free drinks or dinner or whatever.
Dilemma – I have a first “date” with a guy next week (Dating app so i mean, i hardly consider the first meeting a “date” until we figure out whether we even like each other). Do i take out my card to pay my half for the drinks or what?!! I’ve always pulled my card out and a guy last year that i went out with told me “That makes it feel like its just a friends thing, let me pay!” But, i dont EXPECT anyone to pay for me and like to be able to pay my own way! and every guy is different and some get offended.. oui!
muchachae, i have a friend who is the same. She is truly one of the best people i know, she’s intelligent, funny, confident, vibrant and happy and uhh loves sports. I swear, it’s amazing to me how she has NOT gotten swooped up yet, but when it comes to trying to find dates she’s very shy!
I agree with Nookie – what guy is not going to change plans for a girls he is super into? With the possibility of adult alone time?! That may turn into making out at least?! His friend would understand. He needs to be the one to make the effort this time. He’s acting like a guy who just wants to be friends, you deserve better!
Good luck veritek! I feel like i could somewhat relate to your dating stories, i’m pretty guarded myself. Trying to be better about letting people in and up my confidence level. Work in progress lol : )
