Seriously, WWS
I think I’ve told this on here before, but I knew my husband through work, he asked me to the movies, and all through the movie and subsequent drinks I couldn’t tell if it was a date or just friendly. But he removed the doubt by giving me an AMAZING kiss when he dropped me off. And we may have made out a couple of hours. Ahem.
I would never ask a guy if we were friends or dating, like Wendy said, he should SHOW you what his intentions are.
Seriously, Veritek and LadyE, do what Wendy said, pull away a little. DO NOT INITIATE CONTACT OR PLANS. And see if the guys step up. If not, their loss.