JD

They can just jam a needle in there, basically IVF, which is insanely more expensive, or was ha, so we started here, plus we want more than one so the cost made more sense vs 15k per round of IVF, which could be numerous per child.

I told him I am just kicking him in the nuts so hard he has to be hospitalized so it’s covered by insurance, then I’ll just slip the urologist some cash to reattach while he is in there.

I blame his ex wife for being an awful parent, causing him to want to prevent having more kids, since she was pretty open about refusing to do anything to prevent pregnancy since she wanted more. For reference on how wonderful of a parent she is, she has lost custody of both of her kids. She’s special.

In doing my research I told him how it doesn’t hurt too bad from what I read just hurts in your stomach, not like being kicked in the balls. He says “ya that’s what being kicked in the halls feels like”. Well. Sorry dear. Apparently he will feel like he was kicked in the balls for about a month.

Yes part of the fertility thing. Tricare said no way no how bite me as it is 100% elective and in no way medically necessary per say. They would cover some portion if we were having difficulty getting pregnant but not this. I guess I will just say it, husband is getting a vasectomy reversal. I did finally speak to someone who actually knows what they are doing at the hospital so for sure on the costs, but waiting on the nurse to call me. Husband is pretty pissed at the Dr or their staff, as I am, for saying all along it was surgery center and now it is hospital. I still feel the Dr is good at what he does but now debating if we find a new doctor all together. It took almost 9 months just to get in with the urologist to begin with. Getting in with any Dr around here always takes ridiculously long for some reason I will never understand.

That’s it, I am getting drunk. Scheduled surgery today, the whole time they have said “at surgery center”, and by whole time I mean us speaking to them over a dozen times setting this up, scheduling, talking costs, etc. and as soon as the nurse calls me says hospital. So the 2k surgery center fee is now a 15k hospital fee. Don’t even get me started on why the hospital could barely even manage to get me this info, as though asking how I am supposed to pay them and how much is foreign.

If someone gets their feelings hurt over you getting married in the same year, YEAR, then she is mentally unstable. A wedding is a day, not a year. People do this but it’s freaking ridiculous.

@veritek33 Oh I did get updated ears too last time I went! I’d say mine were also about 30 years old. My company did a thing where they send staff after the park technically closes (Land not World) for about two hours. That’s about the only way you’d get me to go. I have an itty bitty head so I was able to get the cute kids ones, and of course had my name embroidered.