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Oh wait, another thing I would rather be at work than doing….shoveling this foot of snow just so I can get my mail delivered again…scrapping the car….slipping on the ice that will remain once I remove the snow…
Ugh this one just really gets under my skin. What entitled brats. If an employee told me this I would NEVER have closed the office but instead would have offered to transfer them to the worse climate office with a lower title and pay.
They can just jam a needle in there, basically IVF, which is insanely more expensive, or was ha, so we started here, plus we want more than one so the cost made more sense vs 15k per round of IVF, which could be numerous per child.
I told him I am just kicking him in the nuts so hard he has to be hospitalized so it’s covered by insurance, then I’ll just slip the urologist some cash to reattach while he is in there.
I blame his ex wife for being an awful parent, causing him to want to prevent having more kids, since she was pretty open about refusing to do anything to prevent pregnancy since she wanted more. For reference on how wonderful of a parent she is, she has lost custody of both of her kids. She’s special.
Ya him reversing it was the only way I’d be with him. It is actually why I flat out wouldn’t commit to him even though I did really care about him, but I wouldn’t even entertain a relationship at all. This extra 10k puts it at the high end of what the range, which, frankly, the doctor is great, but for the high range I’d be going to the top doctor in the country, not a good doctor in BFE Illinois. We are going to talk to the Dr. today but if it is going to be that cost there’s a pretty good chance we will switch to another doctor, with a reasonable price, or if I have to pay that much, travel for a top doctor somewhere else. We will see.
In doing my research I told him how it doesn’t hurt too bad from what I read just hurts in your stomach, not like being kicked in the balls. He says “ya that’s what being kicked in the halls feels like”. Well. Sorry dear. Apparently he will feel like he was kicked in the balls for about a month.
Yes part of the fertility thing. Tricare said no way no how bite me as it is 100% elective and in no way medically necessary per say. They would cover some portion if we were having difficulty getting pregnant but not this. I guess I will just say it, husband is getting a vasectomy reversal. I did finally speak to someone who actually knows what they are doing at the hospital so for sure on the costs, but waiting on the nurse to call me. Husband is pretty pissed at the Dr or their staff, as I am, for saying all along it was surgery center and now it is hospital. I still feel the Dr is good at what he does but now debating if we find a new doctor all together. It took almost 9 months just to get in with the urologist to begin with. Getting in with any Dr around here always takes ridiculously long for some reason I will never understand.
I am not really worried about billing sucking having any impact on the doctor. He is one of the best in his field and we have waited a year as it is. Basically the surgery center used to have a scope, now they don’t, hospital does, so now it has to be there. I am so frustrated.
That’s it, I am getting drunk. Scheduled surgery today, the whole time they have said “at surgery center”, and by whole time I mean us speaking to them over a dozen times setting this up, scheduling, talking costs, etc. and as soon as the nurse calls me says hospital. So the 2k surgery center fee is now a 15k hospital fee. Don’t even get me started on why the hospital could barely even manage to get me this info, as though asking how I am supposed to pay them and how much is foreign.
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