JD
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I mean I can see how he could have thought it wasn’t a big deal since you used to be FWB and for some people it would be ok but it was still weird considering the time passed and such. I wonder what the heck this 9 minute thing was. He seems a bit off and I’d just ignore him. Perhaps even block him.
I saw my husbands exes ring and it was nice enough for the style but I would HATE it. For that reason I gave husband a very clear idea what I liked. I have an infinity band with a oval stone and my wedding band is also an infinity. I actually got some cheapy rings on Amazon first to actually test run the style. So glad I did because what I thought I liked just didn’t look as good on my hand and just trying it on for a few minutes, not even in the correct place on my finger since they were all such small sizes, would not have given me the real idea. The oval makes my hands look much nicer than what I thought I wanted did.
Agreed, I actually was pleased it was a good savings over platinum. I am somewhat jealous that I have to get mine polished from little scratches but his remains perfect.
Kate I got husband Tungsten as well. It is listed as the metal least likely to scratch, dent, etc and the ring I liked happened to be made of it, win win.
My husband likes wearing his ring and really likes me wearing mine. He actually left it on the bathroom counter once and text me about it since he was bummed. I then had it resized since even though that should have been the right size he had taken it off since it was slipping a bit. He hasn’t taken it off since. I for sure prefer him wearing it. I am pretty old fashioned and traditional when it comes to marriage so I guess it just makes me happy. I remember the day after we got married we were at a restaurant and I was just staring at his hands, more specifically ring, and smiling.
The best was when he first took me to one of his pool events (I had never been before) and some guy got all angry at him for messing around with a married chick since they obviously saw my ring….but clearly didn’t bother to notice his. People are ridiculous. They weren’t aware we got married because he really barely knew the guy who was all offended so why would we be telling a near stranger.
Oh Soul. Sorry your wife never orgasmed due to your lack of experience. Next time perhaps learn how to please others and not just yourself.
Not surprising.
Oh that’s awesome.
I will of course have nothing but love either way but husband also wants a girl after two boys. Not fully succeeding with staying to the days we should for a girl since we tend to be pretty frequent though. Ha He’s up for having plenty of kids. I think my uterus and age say two but who knows. I’m nervous enough about 1 happening. We would for sure chose a girl if we have to go the IVF route, assuming those are healthy.
I did HATE babysitting boys. They were always trying to wrestle and jump all over me to the point of physically hurting me or being super needy and demanding. I remember one little boy would find any chance to “accidentally” touch my chest. He told him mom I was mean and he didn’t want me babysitting for him anymore because I wouldn’t let him feel me up, good lord. Was in no way upset about not being invited back to that shit show. My fear of having a boy still exists from those horrors. I keep begging my husband for a girl, not as though he can control that, ha. We are however choosing our days and positions for better girl chances though.
I am sorry to hear that Kate. That is f’d up as hell.
I agree with Kate on needing to be a bit more conservative with things as a male babysitter. Frankly, no I wouldn’t hire a male, call it discrimination if you want but I can discriminate any which way I chose when it comes to someone alone with my children. For whatever reason I just wouldn’t feel comfortable with it. I really can’t even say why, although your ranting and poor judgement on what you post is a good example of why.
I also wouldn’t hire someone who cursed, had a criminal record, smoked, had BO, annoyed me, gave me a weird vibe, the list goes on. When it comes to your children’s well being and safety you can make any decision you want for any reason you want. So yes, in a field where you are less likely to be hired just for being male, you really need to come across as pretty much perfect.
Also, stop using social media if you don’t even know what it means to lock it down. Those are called privacy settings, pretty simple. No one can see anything other than my name and a picture the size of a dime unless I allow it. Kids in general should have locked down profiles, and I think FB should have it as an automatic setting if you are under 18 as it is. Someone just got into me that “kids don’t do stupid things online like parents think”. Ya ok, sure. That’s why my son is internet banned currently because he can’t manage to stop infringing copyright laws by posting crap he finds on some forum. That’s why kids are talking to 50 year old predators and are sure they are the love of their life from their fake pics. All the things you post remain public and stupid crap WILL impact you getting a babysitting job now, as well as professional jobs in the future. Granted some slack is given for things when you are young and stupid but if I have two resumes and one is a nice clean social media presence and the other is some nutty kid posting videos of his cursing and showing concerning levels of anger, guess which one I am hiring?
