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Welll… I don’t want to have a pop at you because you seem like such a nice person but perhaps you’re throwing mixed signals at guys as well, maybe not ones you’re aware of. Dan Savage preaches ask your friends, maybe if this pattern repeats you should set up a double date with a friend couple and ask them what they think?
Just an idea, doesn’t help with HamSandwich. Good luck, I hope he comes and meets the pups!!
hmmmm tough call. Pardon me if this is wrong, I am VERY tired, but isn’t this a bit of a pattern? Like, you can’t tell if a guy likes you or it takes them a long time to get to it?
From my limited experience, guys tend to let you know pretty well if they’re keen. Seven dates in and no real physical contact? That seems a bit iffy to me. But of course there are guys out there that prefer to take it slow, what do I know?
I think @Kate’s spot on, ease off and see if he asks you out?
That’s really great Veritek!! You deserve a good guy! Is he ginger?
I stuck with it to the end, I couldn’t look away. I’m not sure, does ‘Enjoy Sweden’ work here? Because it feels like it works, but I feel terrible for that poor kid.
Yeah, I’d say enjoy it as much as you can because it flies by so fast! My 20’s were a fast time of parties/boys/clubs that I look back fondly even though at the time I was probably keyed up about something. Have fun, most things are temporary (as long as you use condoms!)
Nobody said you were ‘mental’ (and that’s kind of a loaded word, you might want to consider not using it)
Many of us, including myself, have been to some kind of counselling. It’s not ‘mental’ to realise that you might need some help with your emotions and thought patterns, it’s actually quite a strong and reasoned thing to do.
Please paint my bathroom? Or just sweep a little? C’mon….
Sarah’s right, we all need help. Who will come and finish giving my bathroom a second coat of paint? And clean up all the dust from the rewiring? Anyone?
Dang. 🙁
I think you overreacted which made others react badly to you.
I fantasise about a man in the gym with this back that I just want to scratch and… well, you know. And of course one’s mind wanders but I don’t for a second believe that one day he and I could do things to each other. Because I am happy with the man I’m with now (even if we have knock down fights about wall sockets) and I’m sure the pool boy would never meet up to my fantasies.
So it’s okay to think about him but recognise that it’s only a harmless crush, it doesn’t have to be more than that. It can give you a give you a nice smile at work, your secret crush but as others said, make sure you keep your eyes open for an available guy that has the qualities that you like in this person.
Yea this place is really great as a sounding board, no one will pull any punches but what’s said is always done from a desire to help and is usually pretty compassionate. I’m really grateful I stumbled across this place myself and reading all the varying opinions has really helped me along the way, so thank you!
