They keep giving advice because that is literally what this website is for. You put your question out there to be answered. Nowhere does it say anyone has to stop.
All I can say is she’s gonna need a much thicker skin if she plans on taking on the life of the lover of a divorced man (with kids?) There’s a whole world of headaches she’s in for!
I’m only a quarter of the way through but I am thoroughly absorbed in this fiasco! It reminds me (somewhat fondly) of the fights on AIM we’d have in middle school with our close friends after school. I loved how there was actually some great advice peppered in too! Well done