nutellaontoastplease
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I’m in a wheelchair and I make it visible in most of my pictures. I also reference it in the written part (“Looking for a guy who is comfortable giving my chair a push and scooping me up into the car when we go on adventures”)
I would definitely rather have someone know up front so they can decide if they’re comfortable with it. It would be so awkward to just spring that on somebody when you first meet them!!I had a first date yesterday and took a different approach than normal by having minimal messaging/texting in advance and going pretty quickly to meeting. I found that I wasn’t that excited going into it because I felt like I didn’t know all that much about him. The actual hangout was fine and conversation was easy but I’m not sure I felt a spark there. He texted this morning saying hi and wanting to make seeing Wonder Woman happen (because neither of us have seen it yet) but I don’t know… How much of a chance do you guys give something when you’re just kind of meh about the dude?
This may have already been discussed (400 pages on this thread is a lot to catch up on!) but what would you guys say is your typical path from talking to someone online til the first date? I typically talk through the app for a week or two, give my number and text for another week or so then meet up if it all is going well. I actually like to work in a skype call during the texting phase, if possible. I don’t like doing phone calls though, for some reason. I also usually ask if they have instagram or something (mainly just to kind of verify who they are).
