Wendy, and this community, have taught me that I’m not that weird after all.
Lately I’ve been struggling a lot to stay positive, quit worrying, and in general be happy. I don’t know if it’s just SAD worse than usual this year or what, but it’s been a problem. But every time I come on this site and read letters or forum posts from people struggling with the same issues/problems that I am, I feel better. I feel like it’s okay not to have a big “life plan” all figured out, and it’s ok to have a LOT of failed relationships/hookups under my belt, and no one is perfect, and no one needs to be perfect.
Also, I have learned that I am definitely, DEFINITELY eloping if I ever get married! 🙂