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I had my date last night, and it was a first date, and it went really well! Guy kinda looked like the Brawny Man and was super tall. But great conversation over pizza and beers before I had to head back to work and plans for a second date soon!
I have a date tonight and a date on Friday! One is a first date and the other is a 3rd date, so we’ll see how they go!
@kmtthat and @lucia_la it sounds like you both have good things going on! I’m excited for you both. Keep us posted 🙂
Happy birthday @stonegypsy! And I’m so glad you loved Billy Joel @ladyinpurple!
I hope everyone had a lovely new years. I had a great time and also learned that I still love vodka, but vodka definitely does not love me back! Lesson learned in the new year!
Lady – I saw Billy Joel in Concert two years ago – amazing! I hope you have a blast!
Both of those plans sound fun! I can’t decide if I want to go out or stay in. I’m going to a surprise birthday party Friday night that I plan on drinking at, so it might be nice to stay in Saturday rather than go to my friend’s annual dress up and get wasted NYE party downtown. Last year I went out and had a great time and declared 2016 was going to be amazing. And now I’m like, sit down Veritek, shut up, and just ride this NYE out without declarations. Call me superstitious if you will lol.
Anyone have any fun NYE plans this year?
Dre, that sounds really fun! How exciting to have that to look forward to!
I agree with @Anonymousse – I think he made it pretty clear that for now he doesn’t want more. There was no further discussion when we were alone and he could have easily brought it up or elaborated on what he said. But he didn’t.
@Copa – I had considered having a conversation this summer, but it never happened. There was an evening we spent watching movies where he made a comment about getting his life together and “maybe someday you and I could end up together” – and I took that as he is not wanting to date right now/ he is not interested right now/he may never be interested. The only reason anything changed in my head was because of his behavior towards me two weeks ago. But he appears to be back to just friends.
@Bubbles that’s such a nice story about your daughter, and thank you for sharing it 🙂
Trust me, in my gut I know that if he wants to date he’ll make it known and right now he’s just not doing that. And that’s why I’ve dated 3-4 other guys since I met him almost a year ago. So as much as I like him, I do truly know I can’t put all my eggs in that basket, so to speak. Does it make sense when I say that I’m not ruling him out, but I’m not waiting around for him either?
For right now I’m excited about my roller skating date tomorrow night. It’s a third date and this guy is really fun to hang out with so I’d like to see what happens. And this guy makes it know that these are “dates” and that he’s interested in me. So at least there’s no ambiguity with that!
@Copa yes, that would be the one. We met on a dating app about this time last year and became really close friends over this past spring and summer.
@kmtthat – It blows. We ended up hanging out Saturday night and it was completely different than last week. We stayed in the living room watching movies and just talking until 3 am. I made no move to sit by him and he made no move to sit by me, so there was none of the cuddling/snuggling foolishness. I had made the decision I would talk to him if he tried that again and he didn’t, so I don’t know if his friend said something to him or he realized he might have stepped over a boundary line, but it was back to being more “friendly”.
Either way I’m not sitting around waiting for him. It’s a crush and if he ever wants to pursue it, I’m game. I have a third date this week with another guy that I like, and we are going roller skating! He’s a roller derby referee so I think that will be really fun.
@missdre yup, I’ve already decided to have a conversation with him the next time we see each other.
After the ball I was too tipsy to drive so I stayed at his place and we ended up snuggling all night and then going to get breakfast together and then watching movies and snuggling more on Sunday……and this just seems like way more than friend behavior. And it’s messing with my head so if he’s not interested in more than friends, that can’t happen again.
And his friend turned to him at the party and said right in front of me “when are you going to get your shit together and date her already?” And he reiterated that we are friends while I drank my wine. So that was super awkward.
