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@Eve that sounds like a good date! And just hugging on a first date is totally acceptable. I almost never kiss on a first date.
@LadyE Here’s a question that maybe hasn’t been asked and if it has I’m sorry. Do YOU want to make out with Hippie or have sex with him? Forget if he wants to have sex with you, how do you feel? If you enjoy hanging out with him platonicaly (sp?) that’s awesome but if you don’t feel the urge to do anything physical with him I’d go on some dates with someone else that you might be more attracted to? Maybe I’m full of it just curious.
1. positive thing – I spent four hours talking to Tinder Teacher yesterday and we are setting up our date for this week!
2. negative thing – my ex’s bff left a nasty comment on my blog and I’m trying not to let it ruin my day. But I’m really gonna enjoy a glass of wine tonight.
@stonegypsy THAT DATES SOUNDS AWESOME! Admittedly I have a thing for picnics. But still. I’m so glad you had a great date!
I think you’re doing just fine hfantods! Just keep doing what feels right. I’m very guilty of all eggs in one basket and that bites me from time to time unfortunately.
May I whine a bit too? I’m just a teeny tiny bit sad about something going on this weekend and I want a date to look forward to but options are limited around here. I find out on Tuesday when I’ll be able to travel near tinder teacher, but man it would have been nice to have that date on lock before this weekend rolled around.
I second what Kate says. I’m pretty sure that’s what Ham Sandwich did by agreeing when I said I enjoyed hanging out, etc, really liked getting to know him. But guess what? I left it in his court and haven’t heard from him in a week and a half. I got the message
oh def MsDre, no more effort on that guy
Stone I hope you find that person soon. And moneypenny I hope you have good dates and find a person too.
Sundresses mean I dont’ have to wear pants – moral of the story. Any day I dont’ wear pants is a good day.
If the date takes place between the months of April and October the changes of me wearing a sundress on the date are about 95-97%
In my experience it never hurts to take a small glass of wine or an ativan before a date to calm the nerves – but I don’t want to encourage bad behaviors lol. Just that it works for me.
@Kare don’t worry too much. Just see if he reaches out again and if he does and you want to go, go. If you don’t, that’s okay too!
ktfran no plans yet because i work most Saturdays but my work is taking me near him next week so we might set up a dinner and then he offered to come down on a Saturday I’m not working. If it’s a 2 hour drive, four round trip, might as well have a day planned if we hit it off on the first meeting. If not, I’m out nothing if I’m going in the company car and buying dinner on the company dime that I’d be doing regardless. Best of both worlds
