veritek33
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I appreciate everyone’s advice. I think I’m going to go with Wendy’s initial advice and give him one more week to reach out for a date. That he plans. If that doesn’t happen then I’ll forget I have his number. In the meantime I am still on dating sites of someone asked me out and they’re interesting I will go. But I will not be texting or reaching out to him first anymore
Well, I don’t think it was a friend. It was a guy who was looking for a drummer for his band (ham sandwich is a drummer in his spare time.) so I dunno, I’d feel bad canceling on a stranger when I thought the other person might have plans. Either way, I’m hanging back. Clearly he knows how to get ahold of me since he texted me already today. We’ll see.
Btw love the beagle euphemism
I’m probably overreacting I just didn’t have a good feeling after it ended .Well it was nice and we sat and had ice cream and talked and then I mentioned going to see the beagles and he was like oh yeah that would be great. So when they started to close down The shop I said so would you like to go back and meet the beagles and he said well actually made plans to meet up with a guy in Columbia at seven because I thought you were playing softball. So at the end of the day he gave me sort of an awkward hug and I said if you want to get together again let me know and then he left
So the date was OK but it ended oddly and there was no kiss or discussion of what’s going on and honestly I’m just trying to sort through it all right now. Because I feel a little bit rejected so I’ll try to write more details later but it didn’t go as planned
Hand to God, I have to share this story. My co worker can corroborate.
We just went for a walk to the capitol and to do that you pass HamSandwhich’s office building, which is huge. And I thought I maybe saw him out of the corner of my eye walking with a group of girls holding drink cups from the local restaurant. But I wasn’t sure so I didn’t’ wave and just kept talking to my co worker. As soon as we got around the corner i heard a girl shout “kiss her!”
I confirmed with my co worker that this did in fact happen. WTF? I’m still laughing about this. Think she had tourettes and it was just unrelated?
@sms Maybe just go out on a date or answer a message with someone that’s just so-so to get some practice and get back out there? Either way, you just do what you’re comfortable with.
@Moneypenny that’s the most bizarre dealbreaker ever. Like, sandals all day long sure – tetnus and broken glass no. Just no.You guys, I cleaned my living room and kitchen over lunch break on the off chance HamSandwich takes me up on my offer to see my house/meet the dogs and stress cleaning always helps. Took my mind off it for a bit AND my living room is clean now.
The bedroom is a disaster so if any hankypanky takes place, it’ll be living room bound.
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