veritek33
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The weekend this is kinda weird. The first weekend was fourth of july, totally get being busy. The next weekend he was visiting his folks. Okay. The third weekend his folks were visiting him. Okay. This past weekend he had friends coming from out of town.
So it does make me wonder if he’s telling the truth ( I have zero reason to believe he isn’t) or if he just doesn’t want to see me on weekends etc. I don’t know.
I like all of the above options.
So if I said something along the lines of
“So we’ve been hanging out for a month now and I was just curious if you were looking at this more as a friendship or something more?” – would that be appropriate?
@AF no he hasn’t said anything about exclusivity.
I do agree that in person is way better than via text.
I’m so glad he makes you smile KTfran, that’s so awesome.
So can I ask for a bit of advice or opinions?
What shall we call him? (Lawyer guy/Mercedes guy/Ham sandwich?)
Okay, so this was a set up, and we are slowly getting to know each other, and Wednesday will be our 7th date. Would it be completely inappropriate for me to ask in some sort of non threatening way if he’s enjoying this time as friends or if he’s enjoying these as dates? Since it wasn’t an online thing I’m never sure what their “intentions” are or whatnot. Especially since we haven’t kissed (pretty sure I blew that opportunity on the last date and he’s just hard to read).So should I ask in person at the date Wednesday? Or no? via text? What should I say?
Cuz I likes him and he makes me smile and I’d rather find out now if it isn’t going anywhere.
@Moneypenny I hope you go on a good date soon! I hate when I get stuck on a string of bad ones.
@TheLady I would go on a date only if you’re excited about it. If you’re just meh about someone I wouldn’t go. I used to force myself to go on dates and it never made me more excited.
@AF I’ve ALWAYS wanted to go on a drive in movie date! There’s one about and hour and a half from where I live so I think I’ll have to go soon.
So after my date Wednesday night I offered lawyer guy some options the next day because he always pays when we go out so I told him that I’d like to treat him. He got to choose from a. a movie b. ice cream parlor or c. a home cooked meal. He didn’t answer right a way but we did do some banter via text. He had friends in over the weekend so I left him alone but texted him last night and asked how his weekend had been since he said we should talk Sunday. He chose the ice cream option for Wednesday night. We haven’t had a weekend date yet because he seems to have plans every weekend. Not sure what to make of that but I’ll just look forward to the ice cream date and try not to worry too much about it.
welcome @Maggie85 ! He sounds very nice! And getting rid of the toxic ex was a good thing whether this works out or not! What kind of music festival are you going to?
I work in politics so I’m used to all sorts of opinions flying around that I don’t agree with so I mostly just ignore them haha!
No one else is going on dates? All married and pregnant? Come on guys, gimme some good gossip lol!
@nookie haha no! surprisingly! But he is bearded and tall, so I don’t stray far from my type!
He’s an attorney and two years younger. VERY Republican (I’m more liberal but don’t identify and republican or democrat, so we’ll forgive him for this because he doesn’t shove it down your throat – he just argues his point intelligently whether i agree with him or not.) Very funny and is willing to make fun of himself (he’s awful at golf and I totally kicked his butt at the driving range.) And besides being smart and funny I think we have really good conversational chemistry.
The only concern, if that’s the word, is that things are going slowly in the physical department. No kissing yet – but I think I misread a signal the other night, long story short, I’m dense and neither one of us has made a move yet! lol
awesome dates bump
I’m with Kate on this one. I couldn’t finish it but it was crazy enough to make me read most of it.
