“Should I Tell Him I’m Pregnant?”
“I’m pregnant. I don’t want to give the baby up, I’m heading into a career that will enable me to support myself and this baby, and abortion is definitely off the table.”
Shortcuts: “Why Won’t He Tell Me About His Exes?”
It’s time again for Shortcuts. For every question, I’ll give my advice in just a few sentences, because sometimes the answer to a person’s question is so obvious and the need to hear it so great, being as clear and frank as possible is simply the best way to go.
“I Wish My Sister Would Leave Her Abusive Alcoholic Husband”
My older sister is married to an abusive alcoholic asshole. She and I both grew up in a very conservative Christian household and neither of us have a close bond with our parents because they don’t like that we left home and formed our own adult lives that are very different from how we were raised. About 10 years ago, she moved 1500 miles away, met a guy, and got pregnant quickly. They both worked at a Christian school under a signed “morality clause” so they rushed to get married in an effort to not lose their jobs over the unplanned pregnancy. Well, they both got fired anyway and proceeded to have…
Updates: “Still Hurting” Responds
It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Still Hurting” who wondered whether she should tell her boyfriend who got her pregnant that she lied about having a miscarriage and, in fact, had an abortion. Keep reading to see what she decided to do.
“Should I Leave My Boyfriend and Move Back Home?”
“I’m a 34-year-old female who has been dating a wonderful man for two years. I have waited a long time to meet someone like him …”
“I Can’t Remember If I Cheated!”
New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog. Read some of the most popular Dear Wendy posts here. If you don’t find the info you need in this column, please visit the Dear Wendy archives or the forums (you can even start your own thread), do a search in the search bar, or submit a question for advice at wendy(AT)dearwendy.com. Jack and I have been together for almost three and a half years. Our relationship has been consistently so close, passionate, supportive, committed, trusting, open (we tell each other everything) and loving. I have never felt so totally intertwined with anyone else (in a healthy way!). He understands me and…
“How Can I Stop Sexting Too Quickly?”
I’m 27 years old and single. At times, I have no problem with this; I’d rather be alone than with the wrong person. Plus, only having to consider myself when making decisions is kind of a huge perk. But, obviously, at other times, it really bums me out and I think I’ll be alone and unloved forever, which is one of my biggest fears. It doesn’t help that I don’t have the greatest track record with maintaining relationships with friends and family. Honestly, I’ve only had one relationship, not counting the boyfriend in preschool who gave me A Little Mermaid necklace and a bloody nose. It wasn’t until I was 24 that…
Updates: “Scared of the Unknown” Responds
It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today, we hear from “Scared of the Unknown” whose new boyfriend was expecting a baby with a friend he got pregnant shortly before they met. She really liked the guy and wondered whether this was a situation they could work through. It’s been a few months now and the baby has been born. Keep reading to see whether the LW is still with the boyfriend and how they’re doing now.
Your Turn: “My Long Distant Boyfriend is Grieving”
In a feature I call “Your Turn,” in which you, the readers, get to answer the question, I’m presenting the following letter without commentary from me: I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. In fact, I am in another country. We have only been together for three months, and just last week his mother of cancer. Of course, he was prepared for it but he is still in the denial phase. He told me that he needs some time to accept the loss and he even asked me for forgiveness because he is somewhat distant right now. But while he “takes time,” he continues his usual activities like nothing happened…
“My Boyfriend Never Allows Me Near His Ex”
I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. When we first started dating he didn’t allow me to come to his daughter’s engagement party. When it was time for her shower, I had to plan it because her mother couldn’t be bothered. My boyfriend allowed me to go to that. At the shower, his ex-wife was nasty and disrespectful but always being a lady and taking the high road, I ignored the rude comments. Since the shower, my boyfriend had asked me to marry him. At the wedding his ex-wife was again rude and nasty and said I wasn’t wanted at the wedding. When it came time to go to our…
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