I went on the most boring date of my life last night. The guy was a 26 year old data analyst and we had almost nothing in common but because he seemed to really like me over text I agreed to meet up because eh, what else am I doing? Nope, I should’ve trusted my instincts. I was literally almost falling asleep at the table after 3 hours of running the conversation just to keep something going.

I’ve deleted all my apps except OKC and I’m not even on that very much right now. Time to shift my focus for a few months, methinks.

Iceland and Hawaii – both places I want to go! We’re hoping to plan a trip to Alaska for later this year. As far as the threesome, the only advice I have is that it probably shouldn’t be someone either of you already knows.

I don’t know anyone open to a threesome, but he knows quite a few people. He’s more experienced than I am. But the people he knows have no interest in men, so I’m not sure how that would work. He doesn’t care if he’s involved or not, but I feel like that would be bad threesome etiquette? I’m just picturing the “what if” episode of Friends where Ross and Carol have a threesome, and he’s so bored he makes a sandwich. Haha.

Clearly group sex is not my area of expertise, but neither is regular dating if I’m being honest.

@kare I wonder if there are lounges or clubs you can go to that specifically deal with couples or individuals that want to explore sexual stuff like that. There is a club in Toronto that offers a whole house with various rooms, a pool, and spa and they open it up so people can use the spaces on their own, or explore other sexual things. They have events each week for workshops and sometimes for people to take the floor and perform acts. Maybe that is an option you and your FWB can look at to find someone?

I am waiting to hear back on my internship in Alberta, I had a phone interview on Friday, and they said they would contact me this week, so keeping my fingers crossed! If it works out then I can save up more for a trip at the end of the year, also looking at Hawaii as an option, especially now that I have my new passport.

I closed my OKcupid account the other week, as I have settled with Slogan guy and not making much effort elsewhere. Especially with this Alberta opportunity. So far enjoying my time with him and am happy 🙂