DW Community Catch-up Thread
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I could be going on dates with guys I meed on OKC but I just have been feeling meh about dating anyone cause I know I am going to leave in two months so what is the point?
I also haven’t had my mojo working in a few months. I mean i could have it but I’ve noticed that I can’t do a casual thing so I have been doing nothing instead.
There are two guys I am going on dates with this week both are wicked smart. Both are engineers. It seems to be a hot spot of smart people here.. I feel left out with my zero college experience but then i drop the places I’ve been instead and it doesn’t seem to matter much. haha.
I went on the most boring date of my life last night. The guy was a 26 year old data analyst and we had almost nothing in common but because he seemed to really like me over text I agreed to meet up because eh, what else am I doing? Nope, I should’ve trusted my instincts. I was literally almost falling asleep at the table after 3 hours of running the conversation just to keep something going.
I’ve deleted all my apps except OKC and I’m not even on that very much right now. Time to shift my focus for a few months, methinks.
I have bumble but haven’t been on it because I just don’t want to spend my free time dating haha.
I’ve completely rearranged my apartment, planned my trip to Iceland, and I’m now planning a trip to Hawaii.
But my FWB and I are doing a search for the right person for a threesome. If anyone has any tips, let me know.
Iceland and Hawaii – both places I want to go! We’re hoping to plan a trip to Alaska for later this year. As far as the threesome, the only advice I have is that it probably shouldn’t be someone either of you already knows.
Kare – Hawaii sounds awesome! I just found out I’m going on a free vacay to Mexico in April with my travel agent friend so I’m looking for a new swimsuit if anyone has recommendations for a good place for curvy gal swimsuits?
Also, I know nothing about threesomes but it sounds like K has some good ideas lol. Good luck and godspeed.
I don’t know anyone open to a threesome, but he knows quite a few people. He’s more experienced than I am. But the people he knows have no interest in men, so I’m not sure how that would work. He doesn’t care if he’s involved or not, but I feel like that would be bad threesome etiquette? I’m just picturing the “what if” episode of Friends where Ross and Carol have a threesome, and he’s so bored he makes a sandwich. Haha.
Clearly group sex is not my area of expertise, but neither is regular dating if I’m being honest.
Wouldn’t it not really be a threesome if he’s not involved? Then it would be more him just watching you with someone else, like a voyeur type thing? Are you guys looking for a man or woman, or either?
@kare I wonder if there are lounges or clubs you can go to that specifically deal with couples or individuals that want to explore sexual stuff like that. There is a club in Toronto that offers a whole house with various rooms, a pool, and spa and they open it up so people can use the spaces on their own, or explore other sexual things. They have events each week for workshops and sometimes for people to take the floor and perform acts. Maybe that is an option you and your FWB can look at to find someone?
I am waiting to hear back on my internship in Alberta, I had a phone interview on Friday, and they said they would contact me this week, so keeping my fingers crossed! If it works out then I can save up more for a trip at the end of the year, also looking at Hawaii as an option, especially now that I have my new passport.
I closed my OKcupid account the other week, as I have settled with Slogan guy and not making much effort elsewhere. Especially with this Alberta opportunity. So far enjoying my time with him and am happy 🙂
I’m looking for a woman. He is fine with whatever I want to do, but my preference is for him to be more involved.
There are swingers clubs and lots of places that cater to the poly community. I don’t know of a place with workshops though – that would be so much fun!
Fingers crossed for you @Cleopatra! I’m glad you’re enjoying things with your guy 🙂
@veritek where in Mexico are you going? A free vacation sounds awesome! Does Modcloth have swimsuits? I feel like their retro styles flatter more silhouettes than other retailers.
@cleo it sounds like you’re having fun! Nothing but good thoughts being sent your way!
@Kare seriously though, I’d read if you were dater x! I hope the threesome works out for you and you can very generically share with us. (Don’t wanna share too many details 😉 )My friend gets free nights as an incentive at her job so we are spending 5 nights and 6 days in Cancun at Zoetry http://www.zoetryresorts.com/paraiso
All I have to pay for is airline tickets, which is good, because I could NEVER afford this place on my own lolI do have a modcloth swimsuit that I LOVE, I’m just looking for one more so I have more than one. I don’t go swimming often so I don’t have a lot to choose from. This is the one I already have http://www.modcloth.com/shop/twopiece-swimwear/bathing-beauty-two-piece-swimsuit-in-emerald
Just looking for another one so have some variety.
I’m glad you enjoy my stories! Two of my friends (one single, one engaged) like my stories, but the rest are starting to get kind of judgmental. Which is annoying because we used to all swap stories with LOTS of detail, and now it’s like everyone is in wife mode and pretends they’ve never had casual sex.
That is so awesome!!! I’m excited for you. Have you checked out Swimsuits for All? I’m not sure what variety of sizes they have, but they do have some cute styles and a sale right now.
@Kare I’ completely understand! A couple of my “friends” have become VERY judgey lately since becoming mothers. Though, my bff who married her first boyfriend at 23 and is now expecting her second child at 30 thinks my stories are hilarious and exciting and wants me to find my person but have fun doing it. So I just pick and choose who I share stories with more carefully now lol.
This was my favorite from Swimsuits for all (love them) http://www.swimsuitsforall.com/Swim-Sexy-Gold-Rush-Studded-Plus-Size-Tshirt-Bra-Bikini
And I really love the color of this one from VS but think it might be a bit too skimpy for my size 10/12 Double D cup self. https://www.victoriassecret.com/swimwear/shop-by-size/the-getaway-halter?ProductID=282754&CatalogueType=OLS&cm_mmc=pinterest-_-lovelist-_-desktop-_-share
