@Veritek33 I’m sorry. I’ll have a black coffe in her honor.

I’m sorry Ver! I won’t be drinking coffee later, or smoking a cigarette, but you’re in my thoughts.

Hi guys! I’m just popping in to say:
I’m sorry Veritek! 🙁 Hugs to you! I don’t drink coffee much, but I did have a cappuccino today at lunch in her honor.
@Kare- I’m sorry you’re stuck in the middle of all of the craziness right now- I hope you and your family stay safe!
@MaterialsGirl- your party sounds so fun! Wish I lived closer too!
@Missdre- I’m late to the party on what’s going on, but I feel frustrated for you. I also think your plan of action is a good one. I’m curious to hear what he has to say when he returns…
@Ktfran- this is more on topic for the morning letter, but I have to say THANKS for bringing up the gaping bra thing. I actually was super fed up earlier this week because my (old, probably stretched out) bra was doing the same and it was feeling super uncomfortable. On Tuesday after work I went to Macy’s and tried on a bunch of bras- wound up getting one B-cup and 3 A-cup bras, which look the same as the B-cup but whatever. (Calvin Klein and Tommy Hilfiger with padding ftw.) No gaps, and I feel so much better. 😛

I have a date tomorrow afternoon with a guy I feel pretty lukewarm about… Quick backstory: We went on 3 dates back in March, where he came on pretty heavy, and then he abruptly ended things because he wanted to exclusively date someone else. Ok fine, bye. Then in May, he got back in touch and wanted to go out for a drink. But no explanation about the other person or where he was at or anything. (In fact I thought we were just friends. Until he referred to it being a “date” and he kept touching my leg, which I ignored). We went to a baseball game, after which he said he felt like I had ignored him, both at the game and at the previous date. (I said, well, I was paying attention to the game while talking to you bc I like baseball, and you had my complete attention at the bar so…) In June I moved and had crazy work stuff going on so we talked sporadically, but he suggested getting together once I got all unpacked. So that’s going to be tomorrow. I genuinely like hanging out with him, as he’s funny and we have good conversation, but I just feel kind of indifferent. I haven’t missed him at all… which to me is a sign. So yeah. We’ll see. I know that, even though I have a fun time when I’m with him, it doesn’t mean we actually have chemistry/we should go out, etc.

@money, you are so welcome! Actually Kmen, AP and I had a bra conversation one day and Kmen helped me a lot. I’m glad you went, tried on and picked up a few!

So in the course of less than 24 hours, the guy I’ve been dating went from making plans a couple months away to sending me a “I don’t think we should continue dating” text at 6:15 this morning. Because Monday mornings don’t suck enough, right!? We’ve only been dating like 2.5 months but the past month we’ve been seeing one another really regularly, so I’m sad because I think I’ll feel the loss/change in my routine even if it was still new. Feeling a bit disheartened and wondering if there are obvious signs I missed (I was cautiously optimistic, but this felt REALLY abrupt for me). I guess if nothing else I’m glad to know he doesn’t see us together long term sooner rather than later. Onto the next, I guess! Bah.

Copa, if I had to guess for your situation, I’d say there’s another woman in the picture. There’s either an ex who has resurfaced or he met someone else or he was seeing someone else whom he decided he liked me.
I’m sorry!