He did take you to one of the better restaurants and bars in q-town. Kudos to him!!!! FYI, if you’re a Bloody Mary fan, Kelly’s is the best (same restaurant group as the Abby). Their cheese soup is to die for as well. And finally, I love The Tower for pizza, specifically the veggie. Oh, it’s a thing in Quincy to eat pizza and order a Margarita. Weird, I know. But the two best pizza places also serve Mexican.

@hfantods, no, I’m in NY. But I love waterfalls, and hikes 🙂

It’s really good, Ver! Date tomorrow night. He mentioned last week while we were texting that he wanted to spend more time together. He’s really, really sweet. We haven’t been on a date since last Monday, but that’s because of schedules/being out of town.

@K, ah, gotcha. Agreed 🙂

Did he end up meeting your friends, ktfran?

Tinder Finance Guy suggested a cooking/baking session at his place and he offered to make the cooking part (I had mentioned I liked baking before). I’m interested and told him same, except I am going to the cottage this weekend (finally made friends with people who have cottages! [it’s kind of a Canadian thing]). I also had made plans to go to Ottawa the following weekend to visit friends/the city. So I’m looking at the weekend a few weeks from now and that seems far off? It would be three weeks from our second date. Should I maybe plan something in between if I am interested?

I probably am sabotaging my relationship life by planning trips and stuff. Like I do want to go to Otttawa but does it have to be now? I’m driving so it is flexible. Of course there’s work stuff too.

Have a second date at Second City (Toronto) with OKC guy tonight.

Ver – the next date is tomorrow. We’ve done pretty good at seeing each other once to twice a week. Last week was the first that didn’t happen because of busy schedules. I’m not inviting him to the friend meet because 1. we all might cancel and 2. we have a date tomorrow.

The 29th is great, Ver, considering you live a couple hours apart!

Def do not change plans hfan. Maybe try to plan something easier during the week and do the cooking/baking thing a few weeks from now. That’s what I would do in your situation anyway.

Also, I can’t stress enough how important it is to keep your own social life… i don’t think you should not makes plans in the hopes of some guy asking you out. It just makes you miserable.