DW Community Catch-up Thread
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I’ve been to Nauvoo. We use to go there on day trips when I was a kid.
GOOD LUCK! How exciting!!!!!
Oh my gosh, that’s where we use to eat dinner when my parents took us to spend the day there. I love it! I actually want to go back when of these trips home. Too funny.
OMG We’re practically twins.
I just thought it was so cute when he said “Please don’t tell your friends I took you to a buffet for your birthday.” BUT IT WAS AN AMAZING BUFFET! So tasty!!
My date from last week is going to come meet me out for drinks tonight. I’m going to be there with a bunch of people, so I’m a little nervous about introducing him around. He only moved here a few months ago, though, so he seems really happy to meet new people and go new places. (I actually only moved here a month ago, but I already had a big friend base in the city and had spent plenty of time here.) He also already met my roommate/best friend last time when he (the roommate) came home soaking wet and totally wasted right when my date was about to put the moves on me. He survived that and was pretty chill about it, so I’m sure he’ll do just fine tonight. And hopefully we’ll get a chance to continue our little make out session from next week!
Ya the whole innocent thing makes me feel weird sometimes. But whatever, I think guys get off with that thinking, the sweet innocent girl (another thing…I am 24, a WOMAN) and gonna make her dirty.
Buuuut I did my second date last night. And it went really well! 6’2 with a gorgeous red beard. And we grabbed a hot drink and walked along the waterfront for a bit before settling down on a secluded bench. We talked mostly about where we were from, school all that basic stuff. Then when alone we talked about our expectations, what we were okay with tonight (we sexted a bunch proceeding the meetup). And went from there! Snuck into a dark part of the waterfront bushed and made out, great kisser, finally! And then went to his car and drove to a dark parking lot and had some safe fun 😉
I am pretty sure he is the guy I am gonna do my FWB with. I felt so comfortable and at ease with him, and we have a similar view on sex and what we like. And he is so easy to talk to. He also likes cuddling, so bonus! He also felt the same, I am the first person he has met up with through OkCupid. And he liked that he got a good feeling from and about me while we texted. So it seems we are both very interested and on the same page with a monogamous FWB situation! Success!
Nice! I hung out with my FWB last night. We just went to a bar then to his place, but we always have interesting conversations. He might be meeting my friends next weekend. It depends. I need his password to get into this bar, and I told him he’s welcome to meet up with us once he is done working. He’s doing some extra work on the side reviewing haunted houses.
So overall the single life is good! I also keep seeing a cute guy in my building, but seeing as I’ve already slept with two guys on my office floor…eh…
Hmmm ya depending on how long this FWB goes, idk if I would ever introduce him to my friends… is that normal? Or just personal preference? I would be going to see him mostly since he has his own place, and more private then my room at home. My friends know about him, but can’t see me bringing him into my friend activities. And not sure what I would do if he ever invited me out to hang with his friends…But I think I am getting ahead of myself!
I agree, enjoying the single life, especially now that I have carefree sex on the docket 😉
Also reviewing haunted houses? Saweet! I have always wanted to check out a haunted house 😛
I’m not too phased about a guy meeting my friends at the bar. I wouldn’t invite him to dinner with my friends or anything, but the bar we want to go to is more like a club and doesn’t really allow for much conversation. Plus I feel like it would be rude to say “hey can you get me into this bar since you know the door guy, but can you not come with me?”. I mean I could go to another bar, but this one has lots of room for dancing and CANDY machines.
But we do go on dates, so I don’t think it’s that weird that we inevitably meet friends of each other. It’s impossible to go out in each others neighborhoods and not run into people we know.
Nah, I think it’s normal to have your FWB meet your other friends in social situations. I’m married and boring now, but it would have been weird for me to try to keep the two separate back in the day. Like, why would I want to avoid my favorite places, my neighbors, etc. because I also happened to be with my FWB? Plus, it’s fun to introduce someone as “the guy I’m banging……..no, we’re just friends.” Or if you’re goofy like me, you can do your best cartoon French accent and say, “He iz my zexy lover, ooh la la.” (Cigarette optional.)
Oh god, as an old semi-married lady too, this thread is my fix for all things naughty and nice:). (not that my bf isn’t nice. Just sayin’ 🙂 )
LadyE: GOOD FOR YOU! So happy you’re looking around again. I hope it goes well!
Veritek: I honestly keep track of this thread and doing the math in my head: is she going to have her date soon?? I’m really rooting for you:).
shakeourtree: sounds really good! Have fun!
Cleopatra and Kare: I so admire the way you guys can be mature and carefree and joyful with your sexuality. I was just SOOO bad at that whole thing. I’m very lucky I was snapped up at the tender age of 20 and have never let go since:).Have a great weekend and do me proud, everyone. Us old married ladies are counting on you.
