Ended an Unhealthy Relationship and Having a Hard Time Letting Go
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LW: Yes, you need the help of a professional. It sounds like a therapist or psychologist is the route to go today, but if you stay on your current path, then you will quickly find that you need the help of a defense attorney. What you are doing isn’t lawful and your ex could sic the police on you. You’ve given him plenty of evidence.
Your behavior is extremely concerning. Relationship fights which involve punches, breaking things, and throwing things are very serious. Transferring anger at your mother to your bf and starting the fights, which turn violent, is the way you let off steam after fighting with your mother, but it is very serious behavior. Stalking your ex and continuing to contact him and leave messages on his car at work is serious. You need to realize that he is totally finished with you. You aren’t getting him back
What you can do is avoid legal problems, and sort yourself out with professional help, so that your next relationship can be successful.
I also think you need to stay away from your mother as well as your ex, in order to be able to restore your emotional health.
Holy wall of text. I read three or four paragraphs, but you’ve repeated yourself several times.
If it’s so bad you need to explain for 8-10 paragraphs-MOA. Get yourself in therapy to find out what is going on here. Sounds like a trauma bond to me (I’m not a professional) and you’re both trying to work out some underlying demons through your relationships.
No, those never work.
