“Do Her Mixed Signals Mean She Wants Me Back?”
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“ I felt really safe with you physically I never feared you would hurt me. “
If she wrote that in your breakup text you need serious help.
No one in the history of the world has ever written that to a non abusive person.
Why the hell are you trying to date a woman who is unavailable? Women who live 1,000 miles away from you aren’t available to date.
Your mental health adjacent, maybe.
But also, I think your whole fake test was bullshit. Nobody writes a text that long to break up with an internet “friend” of 3-4 months. Give me a break. Why don’t you date women who live locally to you?
I bet I know.
So this was the text you responded to with, “I wasn’t interested anyway?” Smooth move, My post.
I can’t believe Mr “But her mixed messages!”
You told her you’re not interested and now you’re sad that she’s blocked you, so…what was that about mixed messages?
GROW UP AND ACT YOUR AGE.
No dipshit troll. I wrote her a text before talking about attachment styles and ours being conflicting and why I didn’t feel safe with hers, and possibly not hers with mine. I included “not safe in the way of you feeling I would harm you in any way…” This is why she included this. Wow in arguing with bots or uncompassionate people. Either way, don’t respond unless there is value in your response. Personal attacks show you don’t have a clue and are unhinged/unstable.
It isn’t a fake text. You can’t upload screenshots or I would have done it that way while protecting anonymity. I’m not responding to your trolling shit anymore. Just wanted to clarify.
I agree it’s really weird for you two to be texting about whether or not you’d harm her physically. That shouldn’t come up. Also don’t call names on here. Yes, “dipshit” is a name. This is against the forum rules. No, calling you scary is not calling you a name.
It’s not weird when I explained the context. I feel like I’m arguing with AI. This place isn’t conducive to being heard. It is an albatross of negativity. Only comment on one thing she texted to further villianize me as this scary abuser. It is ridiculous and gaslighting to the nth degree. Can’t men not be afraid of women? I’ve seen some pretty aggressive women out there, where I had to have a plan to escape or they may have put ‘bunnies in a lot’ you know. I feel this platform is a heavily female centered and non-objective place for men to come to.
It is weird. Healthy couples aren’t discussing whether they’d physically harm each other.
Get outta here if you don’t enjoy it.
I also doubt the veracity of the text. And if it’s real, it’s weird and also not confusing because it ends by saying she’s done.
Also, FYI, at least one of the commenters who has chimed in on this thread is a man.
Anyway, I’m done here. You will not be happy until everyone agrees with you that this situation is very nuanced and you were done dirty by this manipulative, selfish woman.
Also, fyi, out of the 7 people who commented on here, 2 are men. So yes, the majority of voices are female, but almost 1/3 are male who have opposite-sex relationships.
The text (IS REAL) and doesn’t end by saying she’s done. It leaves it open for the future, thus vague. Anyway, yes the men here were much more assertive, especially one. The other was kind if a d*ck, and I appreciated good advice without attacks. I don’t want people to agree with me. I want people to be intellectually honest, and this place is vitriolic. I’m done ladies, and phew, at least you don’t have to date this monster! Goodbye
