So I have a 13 month old and at 6 months in I couldn’t stand her dad. He hadn’t done anything to make me feel that way specifically. But I was in the midst of post partum something (not depression or anything) but it was only him that irritated me. I wouldn’t have wanted him to take my daughter then. And without having the cancer could have been this woman.

My hormones didn’t level back out until about 10 months post partum and our relationship changed drastically for the better. It’s possible that she is post partum and dealing with cancer and she is taking that out on him. I know I did it. I knew I was doing it, but didn’t really know how to stop.