My parents judged me for socializing as a kid. Now I feel bad for doing it at 26

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  • Anonymousse
    November 20, 2023 at 12:59 pm #1126727

    I agree with you, Copa. I think she has told us she is in therapy (who knows if that’s the case) or something before, but I could be wrong.

    Taco Tuesday,
    If you are looking for assurance that this is wrong and totally inappropriate- yes it is. I could have told you that without the dick slobbering comment.

    Do you still live with them?

    Why has this advice seeking the exact same way gone on for so long? My Long Covid addled brain can’t even remember when this started.

    Therapy! It’s truly not going to go away until you address it with a really good licensed therapist who specializes in CSA.

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    Kate
    November 20, 2023 at 1:34 pm #1126729

    It’s been a little over a year.

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    Kate
    November 20, 2023 at 1:53 pm #1126730

    And yeah, I have asked you before to stop telling us this disgusting stuff that your father does and says, because it’s gratuitous and triggering. Especially because in every post you defend him. So you’re essentially co-signing this misogynistic abusive behavior by saying, you know, your dad is a good guy and there’s something wrong with YOU that you can’t get over it. Just stop. Hunter’s posts are being deleted for similar reasons and yours are next.

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    ron
    November 20, 2023 at 3:40 pm #1126731

    Your dad definitely isn’t a good guy. Religion has made his mental illness and vulgar mind worse. Would not be surprised if his mind was fixated on incest wishes.

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    November 20, 2023 at 4:07 pm #1126732

    She said she moved out and started therapy in a past post. @Kate was able to confirm that the IP hadn’t changed, so at least back then, saying she’d moved out was not true. I doubt she has gone to therapy since every post is essentially the same thing. I know therapy takes time — I think it took me a solid year of weekly sessions before I felt like I could scale back — but whoever this person is, they’ve seemed stuck in the same loop for over a year.

    I wish Robert would come back to post something wholesome about the holidays.

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    Anonymousse
    November 20, 2023 at 4:49 pm #1126733

    I have been in therapy since 2019 and I’m just now considering stopping seeing her…because I just don’t book it or have the same issues. I see her through BetterHelp so I pay monthly whether I see her or not.

    It is critical that you figure out a different place to live, leave that abusive home, get a steady job and routine and start building a healthy live for yourself and that includes probably taking serious distance forever/a long ass time from your dad and mom and see a therapist.

    Wow, now I remember that post. I don’t know why but this reminds me of hunter lionizing his clearly criminally delusional father.

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    Anonymousse
    November 21, 2023 at 7:04 pm #1126748

    So what the hell, taco. Did you move out? Obviously not…right?? Why not? Are you unable to get and keep a job and support yourself? Why are you still there?

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    Kate
    November 21, 2023 at 7:57 pm #1126749

    She might have moved out. Before when she said she was in her new place, the ip address was identical. It’s now certainly in the same (ETA actually small) area, could be still at home but I don’t know for sure. Definitely very close though, which, with a fully remote job, is interesting.

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