Updates: “Thinking About Skipping Sister’s Wedding” Responds
It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Thinking About Skipping Sister’s Wedding” who was, as the sign-off suggests, thinking about skipping her sister’s wedding. The wedding was to be on the other side of the world, and the LW said: “My son will be about 3.5 years old then, and the baby will be just over three months old. Additionally, my husband and I are both professors and our semesters begin the week before her wedding. Missing classes during the first week is hard and frowned upon at both our institutions.” Keep reading to see whether she and her family decided to go to the wedding.
Thanks again for your advice. And good luck to you with your new baby as well. It does get easier every day
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So glad you made the right decision for your family and feel good about it. Sounds like the long-term benefits will outlast any short-term inconvenience and discomfort. Good luck getting Baby back on a good sleep schedule; I know how important that is for family harmony!
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If you’re someone I’ve given advice to in the past, I’d love to hear from you, too. Email me at [email protected] with a link to the original post, and let me know whether you followed the advice and how you’re doing now.
Don’t expect your sister to feel like she can’t believe she asked you to come to her wedding. If she didn’t change it when you told her the deal, she is likely to regret it after. It sounds like a very exhausting trip. Chalk it up to one of those crazy things we do for those we love.
I feel vindicated! I am glad you went. I think it was the right decision.
Great update.