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So dude I was hanging out/hooking up with ended things (I posted about him earlier).
Turns out I gave him a chance and ended up liking him a lot, wanting something with him. When I started showing more interest he got weird, it was always me chasing him and it got old. Just recently he told me he doesn’t want a relationship after I thought things we’re back to normal. So he ended things because he says its affecting me.
This rejection sucks because I was very reluctant at first and when I gave in he bailed. Anyways, all kinds of rejection suck. I’m really tired you guys. Feel lonelier than ever, failure after failure.

I have seen the guy a couple more times and I am still unsure about my feelings. It would be great to have a FWB situation here since we have sexual chemistry but I wouldn’t pursue that knowing that he is looking for a relationship and I feel like he is much more into me.

Finding out that you’ve been talking to a paid professional and not your date would be a deal breaker for me.

I’ve been to three weddings in ten years, including my sister’s and a cousin that is actually divorcing right now. My closest friends aren’t married and aren’t planning to get married. A couple friends got married and didn’t invite me, for whatever reason.

So, we went on a second date and ended up hooking up again. But this time there was no insecurity. He told me that he was very nervous the first time because I was a longtime crush. I wanted to keep sex off the table and follow your advice but there is just a lot of sexual chemistry. I’ve never been one to sleep with someone on the first date, I always wait until I’m sure but this guy makes me feel different. Anyways, I told him that I’m not ready for relationship talk and he agreed that it was too soon. I’m glad I gave him another chance.

I do like his face, his hair and his smile. When we hooked up he was reaaaally insecure about his body and now I wonder if maybe that is why I’m feeling this way, because looks have never been that important to me.