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I think that sounds like a good low key time to invite him. Movie night gives him a break from too many questions, but the next time he meets them he’ll have some of the basic stuff out of the way.

Yes I’m with kate and Nookie as well. The lack of planning and kissing would seem odd to me. Would you say it usually takes you this long to kiss someone you’re dating? Or does he feel like he’s moving at a snails pace. Has he put effort in to any of your dates?

I would let go of the planning here and see what happens. If there are no dates planned on his end and no kissing, then I would bring something up. Because to me at that point it would seem more like a friendship. At some point you have to move on and find someone who wants to kiss you.

I actually wrote in to Wendy and she gave me unbiased advice about dealing with coworkers and friends after I eloped. Her advice let me release the breath/stress I was holding in surrounding my decision.

Beyond that she’s given me (really us) a great community of people to interact with. Reading her letters and advice has made me think about things I never would have otherwise. And likewise interacting with the other commenters has also exposed me to differing viewpoints and forced me to think about things in different ways than I would have before.

I’m sure I could add to this list, but those are the things that stand out to me right now. It’s actually really hard to think of what I did pre Dear Wendy. I feel very lucky to have stumbled upon this site and ‘met’ all of the people on this site!