Jeez I want to take back my original comment all these other comments are reminding me of the things that I have engrained into myself since interacting here, haha.
@SDG – you reminded me that I did learn eloping is the way to go from this website! haha.
And I only say that because a lot of this stuff is relationship and marriage issues that I just haven’t had to deal with yet…a lot of the issues I just don’t relate too in my life (yet).
While I’ve never gleamed any advice from this site I have gained a lot of insight and self-checking with where I align myself on personal and social issues. I think I have always been kind of an empathic person this website has helped me understand different perspectives and enhance that aspect of my personality as well.