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So ends up oneof the Tinder guys I met up with for the second time this past Friday is cuckoo for cocoa puffs!

After watching his scrimmage hockey game and coming back to his place for a decent shag, we ordered some pizza at the wee hours of the morning and then he proceeded to tell me about all the conspiracy theories he believes in (ie. Princess Diana was assassinated by the Royal family, Sep 11 was organized by the government, the Mayans are the result of alien-humanoid breeding, light bulbs and electricity were around during Ancient times, there is a 13,000 year old alien satellite orbiting earth).The list goes on. I was too scared and angry to ask if he believed in evolution because then I would have just left him at 4AM, probably should have walked out the door but it was so late and didn’t want to drive home tired.

Anyways I listened to his wild accusations and talked back a bit saying they were ridiculous an unfounded by professionals alike. Then he goes on to tell me he has an IQ of 160, and would not believe in these theories if he didn’t think they were legitimate. THEN he told me he has has experienced in the past the ability to touch objects of someones personal importance or shake hands with someone and get glimpses into their past, or future. He can also look at structures or mechanical objects and be able to see them broken down and understand how they work, he has had these experiences since he was 12. He also has a nack for reading people, he read me pretty well for only meeting me twice and not sharing much of myself. So the last things, I can probably see how they can be true, difficult to fake that, however he is still a little nuts in my eyes and I do not think I will be seeing any time soon. We clash enough personality wise after 2 meet ups, that this will probably not be healthy for either of us. Gah…where are the normal men….

I have been using meetup for quite a while now, and recently the hiking ones. I have not had any issues what so ever, but this past weekend I was talking with someone in the group who mentioned a friend of hers who had this issue! It seems to be a growing issue with meetups, and so unfortunate 🙁 There are a lot of groups and people out there for the right reasons, so it sucks when this happens and discourages some people.

Weird thing happened though at the past hike, we had a total stranger just walk in and pretend like he was apart of the meetup. We only had 7 of us signed up, one person backed out so 6 at the morning of the hike. We all knew each other as well so familiar enough. We get to the trail head and are waiting for one of the hikers to come back and this guy just walks up says hi, sorry for missing us at the carpool. We ask if he is here for the meetup, he says yes without hesitation and we are just okay guess there was someone we missed! As we talk with him throughout the day we ask him more questions and start thinking that he was supposed to be with another hiking group that is also doing the same trail. Then we finish the hike, go for coffee in Canmore and we continue talking and he then admits oh I wasn`t apart of any meetup, just popped in and joined you. We all nervously laugh and are thinking wtf! You could have just asked to join us if you were alone doing the hike, not make this elaborate story of being with a group etc. So we are now being more vigilant with strangers.

In other news, totally banged a super hot guy from Tinder last night XD Gah! Tall, really fit and muscular and just yummy. First really fit guy I have slept with before, definitely raises the bar that`s for sure! Sounded like he was interested in seeing me again, hopefully, fingers crossed!

@materialsgirl lovely pictures! My parents got married at the old Toronto City Hall, and I think I would too. It has a lot of character.

@kmtthat I totally agree with your list for a FWB, and please learn from my mistake of doing it with someone within your social group. It may have worked out better if I didn’t see him each week with that group. But who knows. Lesson learned! Although now I think the don’t ask don’t tell policy would probably be a good thing for me to apply in the future if I ever attempt a FWB again.

I am in the same mentality as you right now. I just don’t have the drive or interest in dating. I kind of wish I did, but it all seems so daunting and uninteresting.

@Ktfran Aw! That is so good to hear! I hope one day to find a partner that is like that and makes me feel that way! I think most of us dating/single ladies and gentlemen will agree 🙂

@MissDre ah so sorry you are feeling so down 🙁 Know we are all thinking about you today!

I ended up temporarily ending my FWB situation with my guy. I had mentioned in a previous comment that when we went for drinks with our hiking group a couple weeks ago he got drunk and flirted shamelessly in front of me with one of the other women in the hiking group. I finally stewed enough in my own thoughts and called him out on it the other day and said that what he did was totally inappropriate and disrespectful. We did have an agreement to be monogamous, but if there happened to be a chance we slept with someone else we would use protection and tell the other person for the safety of our health. But he didn’t realize that it was inappropriate to flirt with another women in front of me, especially when it was another woman in our hiking group, AND when we planned ahead of time to go to his place that night and sleep together. So ya I was pretty surprised by his rationale. He did apologize profusely and said he didn’t mean to insult me. But he also clarified that his attraction to this person clouded his judgement and so agreed what he did wasn’t right. He is attracted to her, but not sure what else he feels about her. He doesn’t think that anything will come from her, not that it makes me feel any better. At the moment we are still friends and we have a hiking group camping trip planned this weekend, so we are friendly and want to keep hanging out. But I just can’t do the sex at the moment. I might feel better in a couple months, but idk.

I mean am I totally wrong for being mad at him? Sometimes I feel that way because yes it was a FWB with no real solid commitment other than sex, but I assumed proper judgement for certain social situations would be displayed, and didn’t feel that happened in this case.