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Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

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  • Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    I don’t have any weekend plans yet, but Thursday I am doing coffee with a friend after work, and then Friday I am visiting my cousin and her BF with my bro to do drinks in their area. So that will be fun πŸ˜€

    I still haven’t made plans to see Kinky Guy any time soon. We chatted a bit on the weekend, but after coming back from Florida 2 weeks ago he got the flu and a throat infection. So I am waiting on him to contact me once he is better since when we last talked he said that was what he had, and def won’t be making plans till he is better. Sounds like he is still interested, but not holding my breath. Otherwise I will move on and find someone else. Kind of surprised I even stuck with him after all these things happened, but I really have no motivation to go back online and search for another FWB. Tinder might be an option later. But until then I will see where this goes.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Wow….I can only imagine your emotions right now LadyE. Stay strong, positive, and most importantly, be selfish right now. Do things that make you feel good and benefit yourself. Screw guys for a bit and just enjoy having your ME time. And don’t let your age hold you back, that is something that should not be on your mind. Get your best buds together for your B-day, drink, eat, and party!

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    I decided yesterday that whatever my plans are for Halloween (still up in the air right now) I am gonna dress up! I changed my mind and want to do Cleopatra/Egyptian Queen costume. Since I have tomorrow off for work I am gonna roam around second hand shops and hopefully gather supplies!

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    Gah. All these new posters have me so skeptical now. It is beyond ridiculous! I want to believe SOME of them, but the majority seem totally fake. So sad πŸ™

    Especially when we are getting so many “new” posters each day, the traffic is a little too high from what I have seen in the past few years.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Well I have used toys in the bedroom, and I personally own a vibrator, which is great for myself, but not so much for any guy I use it with. If you get a toy that helps stimulate both you and your bf maybe he would be more into it? Or go to a sex shop or look online together and see if you can find some things that you can both enjoy? Cock rings can be fun for both if you get a good quality one.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Hmmmm making me worried now! I will probably go to the doctors then within the next week or two and ask about it. I am being paid well now, but will be starting my loan payments come Nov 30th. So sooner rather than later I suppose. And it is every 6 months, so hopefully by my next shot I will have the cash if I can arrange a payment system.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    I have been told numerous times to get the HPV vaccine from doctors (not cause I am a crazy sex person) but because I am young, and having sex (monogamous). I just cringe at the cost though! Here in Canada it is 3 shots at $170 I think…or something ridiculous. I don’t have a ton of cash and I don’t have health insurance anymore, so it doesn’t cover it. I think once I get a big girl job I will use the insurance through that and get it done.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    @kare honestly better to be out right about it then beat around the bush. It was a traumatic experience and people joking about it when it clearly isn’t something funny needs to be addressed. I think you addressed the situation well πŸ™‚ Albeit blunt, that needed to happen!

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    I won’t be able to see my FWB till next week unfortunately. He had to cancel our date last week due to work being crazy, he had a huge project at work to prepare for with his coworkers. And then he is gone to Florida all this week! And I suspect by the time he gets back next week I will be on my period and won’t be able to have sexy times. Oh the humanity! haha

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    @veritek33 that sounds like a wicked weekend! So glad it went well πŸ˜€

    I went out with an Italian once for a couple dates, he totally played it up and texted me sweet nothings in Italian, it was funny and cute at the time πŸ˜›

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    @Kare holy jealous! Man I hope my FWB sex is good! haha I am seeing him tomorrow evening. Although no details yet on what time and where, he is really busy apparently with a huge project. So I am hoping we will get a decent amount of time in πŸ˜‰

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    @Lianne I am not looking for a ltr right now. I am definitely in the mind set of casual, fun and non-committed. So although I am “dating” these guys a lot of stuff is missing and or rushed. Like the physical intimacy is developed much quicker then when I am seriously dating. And although it is a FWB, I probably wouldn’t date them seriously for a variety of reasons. I am a little less picky right now then when I am dating.

    I don’t see anything more serious happening between the final man that I have my FWB with. I am looking specifically for a monogamous FWB right now, and some might say ‘oh that sounds like a relationship.’ But in my mind it isn’t because the emotional connection has not been or will intentionally be developed by me or the partner. If it happens I would have to see how I feel and whether I am ready to seriously date, and whether I even like that person enough or see something developing.

    And my potential FWB is also really open, hello kinky! So gonna be checking some things off my sex list too haha

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