JD
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I don’t know how it would make you proud. I was proud of my stepson for being a great traveler, figuring out flight changes, etc on his own, ya know because he is a kid. I cannot think of any logical reason you should be proud of him being capable of traveling. He is gaslighting you to a pretty extreme degree.
It was sarcasm dear.
Well ya I think you shouldn’t ask him to cancel, plus that doesn’t actually solve the problem. The problem isn’t the trip, it’s the likely cheating, the not telling you, the need for time away from you to decide if he is ready to settle down. These problems will exist with or without the trip. If my husband had said he needed weeks away to decide if he was ready to be with me, it would have been over. If my husband said he was going to stay at the house of a woman he knows from online, over. That is not how people in relationships behave. That is not how people who want to be with you behave. If he needs a trip to be sure he doesn’t want it. Why do you want to be with someone who isn’t sure. My husband pretty much begged me and moved mountains to marry me (not literally begged obviously). He wanted NOTHING more than to marry me and settle down. That is how someone behaves, not needing an orgy filled drug fest to be sure.
You really just need to end it now. Plus, even if he didn’t go and things went back to normal he’d be resentful and bitter for not going, likely losing money on tickets, etc. So new problem. I know you love this man and want to be with him but this is not a healthy relationship. You really need to see this for what it is and end it.
What does the flight length have to do with him planning on banging online gal? Other than he is seriously committed to doing so.
No you shouldn’t understand his desire to shack up with an online woman. Nope.
Stop buying his bullshit. Literally no one in the history of time has taken such a trip for those reasons. He is banging online girl. No doubt.
Staying with a woman he met online? Really? Your relationship is over. Leave now, don’t be the fool. Sketchy as hell.
If my husband told me he was revisiting his past I’d tell him to enjoy his ex wife and walk out. Ya it’s weird. I get needing time alone but frankly he should’ve just said that. Even if it was a lie it would’ve been better than revisiting his past. I mean wtf does that even mean?
I’m not sure you need to move on because someone didn’t want to go on a trip with their significant other. That’s a stretch. Depends why.
Well, why did he not invite you? That’s the question that leads you to your answer.
Ugh on the faucet. That part of this current sick is so annoying. Mine will stop then just turn on. One second fine, next snot dribbling down my face. So attractive. Glad my husband is legally bound to me hahahha
When we drove here, 2 15 hours days, ughh, we got hit with the snow in Kansas. Insanely scary we should not have been driving but it hit while we were on a lonnnggg toll road and there was no where to stop for a long time. By the time we could’ve stopped we were out of it. Husband says it was the scariest drive he’s ever done. It was insane. There wasn’t even really a restaurant to stop at. I had to lie back and close my eyes I was so scared.
I’m hoping no flu too. I’m getting worse not better currently. Pretty miserable.
